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  Posted: 05/10/2026

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion Friend has cancer and is being distant :(.

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  Posted: 05/06/2026

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion Friend has cancer and is being distant :(.

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  Posted: 05/05/2026

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion Friend has cancer and is being distant :(.

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  Friend has cancer and is being distant :(

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  Last Reply: SunCloudJD 05/12/2026

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  Shes been my best friend since we were teenagers. Were in our 30's now. She was recently diagnosed with stage II cervical cancer. Had to get a hysterectomy that she did not want, and now has to start chemo in a few days. Shes been devastated. She still lives in our hometown, and I moved to a big city years ago. But I've been supportive to her through this. We always remained close with lots of phone calls and occasional visits since I moved. A few weeks ago I even took a bus back to our...

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  Posted: 12/21/2025

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion More heartache.

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  More heartache

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  Last Reply: thetrueyou 01/13/2026

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  I wasnt planning to date anyone for a bit after i left my toxic relationship. But someone who i really had feelings for started talking to me pretty intensely. I liked them a lot and wasnt about to turn a good thing down. Unfortunately, they experienced a terrible tragedy in their family. They sent me a long and heartfelt message about how they needed to pull back to be there for their family right now, but that they cared about me a lot and did not intend to abandon me. It was kind of a...

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  Posted: 11/28/2025

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion Left my toxic relationship. Hurting..

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  Left my toxic relationship. Hurting.

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  Last Reply: hasty_05 11/30/2025

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  I finally left my emotionally abusive relationship of 5 years. It took so much courage. One of the hardest things I've ever had to do. At first I felt so liberated and free. Now I'm just hurting pretty bad. It's not so much missing him as it is grieving the good parts, and also struggling with being single for the first time in so long. Its hard for me to imagine meeting someone new and clicking with them in that way. Where will I find them? What if I get rejected or led on over and over? What...

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  Posted: 09/13/2025

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion Friend is very needy.

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  Posted: 09/13/2025

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion Friend is very needy.

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  Posted: 09/13/2025

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion Friend is very needy.

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  Friend is very needy

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  Last Reply: adriasm 09/23/2025

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  I have a friend who experiences some mysterious medical problems. She is also deeply anxious. This leads to her constantly going to ERs. Sometimes multiple times a day. The doctors never find anything wrong and send her home. She also insists that someone must always accompany her to the ER. She is terrified of being alone. Its to the extent that she never even sleeps alone in her house. She always has to have her partner or a friend over for the entire night. Its caused tension in numerous...

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  Posted: 08/13/2025

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion I think I'm trapped in an abusive relationsip.

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  Posted: 08/13/2025

  Ilovemycat94 commented on the discussion I think I'm trapped in an abusive relationsip.

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  I think I'm trapped in an abusive relationsip

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  Last Reply: mlr0853 08/13/2025

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  I don't typically think of my relationship as abusive. He keeps me very comfortable and takes care of me, always makes me food, dotes on me, very soft and sweet most of the time. But sometimes he gets in these angry moods and he acts like a complete ass. He'll blame me for things that arent my fault (our difficulty finding a new place to rent, the fact that we had to wait on paperwork before we got a new car, etc) or he'll get very snappy and tense. Other times hes gotten very angry at me for...