Incognita
Status: I want a pretend life. Lol.
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- It has been a week and I think that my recent "incidents" might be healing still... I was wondering if anyone has tips or methods for scar reduction. I haven't SI'd like this since I was a kid and don't want to draw too much attention to myself...
- I was wondering if anyone else out there felt or thought that being frustrated is a trigger for their SI. Tonight something happened that has really made me get frustrated, anxious and stressed out, and I can't help but find myself subconsciously...
- Personally I feel much safer in LDR where I met the person online via discussion board or writing group. I've had two/three LDRs turn into real time relationships but each flopped. Being online chat buddies/dating just seems so much simpler. I was...
- I'm going to be 25 next month and things between my parents have been rocky for years. I know that no marriage is perfect, but some recent things have been wearing on me even more than usual. I'm writing here because I need a place to talk where...
- I haven't lost a parent, but was involved deeply in the process of my grandparent dying a few years back and did my best to remain strong for my parent in that situation. My ex gf, which is also my friend and roommate, called me screaming today...
- I was wondering if anyone here has had experience dating a lady that is more "butch" in nature or is possibly transgendered (female to male). And when I say butch/trans, I am referencing to being with someone that is the "top" in the...
- One of the things I need to work on is socializing with others and making friends. I've been thinking about joining a dating site to try and make friends and force myself out of my element. This is something I know I need to do, and hopefully Ill...
- Something I would like to open up for discussion is "SI Accountability".For many of us, when people trigger strong emotional responses we feel triggered to give into SI or our urges to SI increase exponentially. I know that for me personally that it...
- Someone I know was turned into collections for not paying on a private student loan through an Art Institute. I've never had anything like this happen to me or a friend, so what exactly could this mean for the person I know?Can they work with the...
- My (now ex) gf and I have been struggling for a long time in our relationship, or I have at least. She has a lot of issues and I kept trying to give her methods of working on things or resources so she could get help. I finally got her to join...
- Tomorrow is my initial appointment seeing a therapist.I know that I have A LOT of issues and topics that I need to cover, but one of them that Im feeling conflicted about has to do with my ex gf. I'm not sure I'm going to like being with this...
- For those of you who are seeing therapists/counselors, how did you approach the whole topic of SI in your discussions?I haven't "cut" in 6+ years. I've had a few relapses where I've scratched through the years, but all my scars are gone. Tomorrow I...
- I've been having a hard time dealing with my ex gf and trying to course correct things in our relationship. She's my best friend, and our problems aren't as bad as some couples, but I wanted to stop promoting a codependent relationship lifestyle...
- I'm at the point where I have no idea how to communicate effectively anymore with someone in my life, and the only way I am thinking of how to communicate what I am feeling is to cut. By making my emotions a physical reality, I won't get judged or...
- I would like to pose a question to the lesbian community that is based off of some observations I've made in my personal experiences:Within the lesbian community, why are bisexual women treated differently than lesbian women while in lesbian...