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  Posted: 10/15/2019

  ohsolost commented on the discussion Self-pity? or Self-grief?.

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  Sharing Some Hope...

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  Last Reply: suddenlysingle 04/18/2018

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  I'm 6+ years out from the loss of my dearest husband and, lately, have been feeling so lost without him (still).  The following is something I found somewhere in my search for something to keep me breathing while I grieved until I didn't think I had any tears left.  (I did, of course, and still do, as you all can testify!)  This little story can give me some peace, yet."In the bottom of an old pond lived some grubs who could not understand why none of their group ever came back after...

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  Posted: 12/17/2017

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  Posted: 11/29/2017

  ohsolost commented on the discussion Being Widowed....

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  Posted: 11/28/2017

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  Martha, So sorry for not returning your hug! I just figured out how this new (? - at least a year old) system works on DS. Terry
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  Posted: 11/15/2017

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  Being Widowed...

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  Last Reply: ohsolost 11/29/2017

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  Today would have been our 19th wedding anniversary and, as every year since my darling's death, I was perusing some of my "saves" from the days, nearly 6 years ago, when I first became a widow.  I thought I'd pass the following along to you all... perhaps to offer you some hope.  (Unfortunately, I don't remember where I found this, so don't know whom to credit for it.)Being widowed is not a six month experience. Being widowed is not a year long experience. Being widowed is not a two year...

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  Posted: 11/20/2017

  ohsolost commented on the discussion Feeling like such a fool!.

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  Posted: 11/18/2017

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  Posted: 11/10/2017

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  Some thoughts from a "graduate"

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  Last Reply: sweetpea11 11/02/2017

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  My husband died on Valentine’s Day in 2012 – 5 ½ years ago – and I discovered this site, that became my redemption.  Just coming here gave me a purpose.   I come back here and read your posts, every once in a while; and it reminds me of the depths to which sorrow can take a human being.  Did I say sorrow?  Not even close, huh?  Even now, I can’t think of any word – at least in the English language – that comes within miles to describe the feeling for the loss of one’s...

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  Posted: 07/16/2016

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