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- - echo echo echo -Yeah, I know. No one comes around anymore. That's a good thing, I think. But I miss my ole support buddies and I'm pretty miserable. Don't feel up to dragging myself off to the infidelity boards to try to make new friends.Guess...
- (Copied from my journal cos I'm lazy.)I haven't bought a dress in YEARS. Like. I don't know. A decade? No joke. I have a few long hippie dippy skirts that I love, but I need a for realsies dress to wear to the 40th anniversary party for my...
- Well, really today since it's already 1:30 in the morning, but we'll say "after one sleep"?H will finally find out if he got the promotion he's been working toward at 5pm.Just came here to sorta lean on y'all while we await results. :)How is...
- Interesting article: http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/raising_happiness/post/hate_your_husband_or_your_wife/Comparing my grandmother's marriage to my own I see similarities in the story told. My grandmother was VERY happy. She felt she had choices,...
- http://www.jokeroo.com/videos/funny/contagious-laughter-in-the-subway.htmlJust keep watching. At first it's like, "Uhh?" But by the end I PROMISE you'll have to fight not to giggle. :)
- I'm sitting here on newly discovered information that could be incredibly useful for revenge against OW. I don't want to start yet another "revenge is good" "revenge is bad" war - I need someone to steer me away from it. This is the golden...
- When I saw that #IfYouCheatOnMe was trending, I thought it might be interesting to see the global responses. Yes, I expected silliness and triteness - it IS Twitter, after all, but... wow.People really, really don't get it, do they?I couldn't...
- I still occasionally read H's email. Not as often or as compulsively as I used to, but certainly, I peek in now and again. I happened to notice his sister was sending a weird exchange of emails - basically, "Did you get it yet?" and then "Let me...
- Im curious - what sort of hobbies are y'all into? What fills your spare time? And - if you have a spouse/romantic partner, do you share hobbies/activities with your significant other?I'm set for doing stuff alone. I'm a huge fan of "making stuff"....
- Any recommended additions/recipe adjustments to the standard "Fantasy Fudge" recipe? I think my daughter and I are going to make some later on today. I melted caramels and swirled them in with the last batch but I want to try something different...
- I've seen it sprinkled throughout posts here and there, but this article got me to really thinking about gaslighting: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/yashar-hedayat/a-message-to-women-from-a_1_b_958859.htmlHow many BS have heard one (or all) of the...
- :) Hehe. That sounds so creepy.H got a call this morning. He is being called in to work with the office where OW works. I don't KNOW that he'll be working with her, but I suspect as much. No, I don't think he's off to rendezvous with her. No I...
- One of the things my husband and I are hashing out now entails friends of the opposite gender. Marriage Builders Dr. Harley says "NO." He's very firm on this issue. "NOT Just Friends" also cautions against it, giving reasons why it is a breeding...
- I hate this. When does the paranoia leave? When do I stop checking phone records? When do I stop jumping every time he gets a text message? When do I stop sneaking onto his phone and computer to check histories and see what he's been up to?H...
- I'm interested in what book(s) or other programs have helped you survive - and even thrive. (Particularly material that supports staying in the marriage, though anything would be appreciated.)What are you/have you read and why was it beneficial to...