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:) Hehe. That sounds so creepy.
H got a call this morning. He is being called in to work with the office where OW works. I don't KNOW that he'll be working with her, but I suspect as much.
No, I don't think he's off to rendezvous with her. No I don't think he's going to see her and swoon and run off to be with her. It's more of just an internal illogical anxiety thing that's been triggered.
Last time he had to work with her, I knew in advance and scheduled a mani/pedi with a friend. It was time to relax and unwind and chit chat so I could get my mind off of it. This time, no warning.
I wish I had developed a plan for when this would happen with no warning, but I had anticipated there would always be some sort of advanced warning. *sigh*
Suggestions?
H got a call this morning. He is being called in to work with the office where OW works. I don't KNOW that he'll be working with her, but I suspect as much.
No, I don't think he's off to rendezvous with her. No I don't think he's going to see her and swoon and run off to be with her. It's more of just an internal illogical anxiety thing that's been triggered.
Last time he had to work with her, I knew in advance and scheduled a mani/pedi with a friend. It was time to relax and unwind and chit chat so I could get my mind off of it. This time, no warning.
I wish I had developed a plan for when this would happen with no warning, but I had anticipated there would always be some sort of advanced warning. *sigh*
Suggestions?
As for dealing with the idea that he'll be in the same office...all I can offer is take a deep breath and let out slowly. Repeat. and maybe spend your time developing a plan for future occurrances?
Clean, walk, call a friend, do all of the above...sorry I'm not more help for you!
(((HUGS)))
Working on a baby blanket for a friend. What more joy can there be in that, right?
H has said he'll text as soon as he knows more and has a break in which to send a message. He also said he'd call at lunch. I hate being so freaking needy, but I've tried pretending I'm not and that just goes bad fast. Better to just own it and deal with it, I guess.
May have to plan lascivious acts for tomorrow night to burn off some of this steam, though. Heh. Now where'd I put that whipped cream?
Hang in there! <hug>
we're here for you. Can understand what your feeling. It's the illogical stuff that gets you going and sometimes the hardest to shake. Just remember he's there with you and told you about possibly running/working with OW. Not thinking about BS's but CS's maybe its a good thing to stick in Ops face that they've moved on.
When H gets home show him how happy he's home and he can show you how happy he is that you have him another chance and how much he loves you. *hint hint
It's better to just make it about me today and do what I need to do to take care of me right now. And yes... when he gets home make it about US ;)
Thanks for all the support y'all. MUCH appreciated.