aditi1974
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- I have been writing and sharing such negative stuff in my journal here...my friends here patiently giving me so much support--to them i am so thankful. Today, I wrote a particuarly disturbing entry.... a friend had read it and as usual she...
- Weird as it may sound, its taking 'courage' to wish Happy New Year to all....to try to get all enthusiastic about a new year. But still, here's a wish for all here that the New Year brings days of happiness, peace , love and all things you would...
- While I am not a Christian..am a Hindu from India...Christmas has a magic about it which I can't ignore. And more importantly, my daughter loves it! So, decorated a little tree and my daughter decorated her room too. While I have number of thoughts...
- In my 7 years of marriage, mostly I was crying or angry or frustrated. It seems I was suffering from depression episodes which I didnt realise and so took no action to help myself. He must have got sick of me. While 70% of our married life, I was...
- Sometimes, when I am sitting on my own, my brain suddenly triggers a memory of a happy moment in my marriage. Its like a bloody game my brain plays with me. Then I consciously remind myself -with the help of the same brain--the way things...
- I had this huge ambition to becoem a world-renowned professor of Marketing as well as a consultant to top service firms like FedEX, Singapore Airlines, etc, etc. I would have my Mission statement stuck in my work-place. I wanted to excel in...
- Found these words by Paulo Coelho made a lot of sense (esp., some parts): Read on, its not too long..."One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning...
- I want to get down and be seriously turthful to myself about why I cannot move forward after this break down of my marriage: 1. Losing a 'husband' is much worse than losing even a 'lover' : in both, you've lost out in love, but a 'husband-wife-...
- Horrible dream .... the stbx is asking my daughter if she'd like to stay with her 'father and mother' (Stbx and OW) or mummy (me) !! I asked, 'father & mother'...he said, yea, we've been married for 4 years now !! My daughter's confused and crying...
- Last night I put on the TV and of all movies, there was 'Indecent Proposal' playing...having seen the movie ages back, i sat and watched it again. I was pleasantly surprised I didnt cry relating the movie to my life nor did was i bitter/cynical at...
- While I thought settling out of court by taking the stbx's offer to sell an apartment , the money of which I could use to right off a huge loan of mine to start a new life, I 've got this beautiful advice from the bank which had funded the loan for...
- I'd been thinking about going to court to get justice for infedility ...but its going to be a 2-3 years battle with what consequences?...I'm not not sure. I was thinking about fighting for my rightful maintenance (alimony) ...infact I wanted a...
- This might seem funny, but my victory today has been helping my daughter with her science project . Its actually done without me fretting and its come out pretty ok ! Yea !! Wasnt too back ago when I was scared like crazy about how will I look...
- I give up. I cannot take this any more. I have lost. I thought through the law i can hurt him, but the laws here are so stupid ...if I work, I 'll hardly get alimony which the stbx has refused to give anyways. There is no 'compensation' for...
- The stbx called to discuss the demands I had put up for this divorce. I told him we need to discuss it face to face..so we do with him coming straight to the point of him not having money ! I stick to my grounds and he tells me how, if I took this...