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  New Friend

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  Posted: 03/09/2019

  stcymcknz became friends with Reenboe.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/31/2018

  stcymcknz commented on the discussion Advice: The Holidays.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/30/2018

  stcymcknz commented on the discussion Advice: The Holidays.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/29/2018

  stcymcknz commented on the discussion Advice: The Holidays.

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  Advice: The Holidays

  Posted by: stcymcknz

  Last Reply: stcymcknz 10/31/2018

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  This year, we are hosting Thanksgiving at my house! (I am dueto give birth the day after, so wish me luck! Ha.) Remember, I kicked my dad out last month and he has been homeless since. However, my mother asked me if I was inviting him to thankgiving dinner... I told her I totally havent thought of that, but why should I? She said "Becuase he is your father". Ugh. Yeah, he is. And i love him. And I miss him.  And he was always good to me growing up (other than taking my money andusing me for...

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  Journal Comment

  Posted by: stcymcknz

  Posted: 10/22/2018

  stcymcknz commented on stcymcknz's journal Trait 6: We have a overdeveloped since of responsibility of responsibility

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  Journal Comment

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  stcymcknz commented on stcymcknz's journal Trait 7: We get guilt feeling when we stand up for ourselves instead of giving in to others.

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  Trait 9: We confuse love with pity and tend to "love" people we can "pity" and "rescue"

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  Posted: 10/16/2018

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  Trait 9: We confuse love with pity and tend to "love" people we can "pity" and "rescue".This one I would need to ponder a bit more. I am not sure this one fits me well... I have never really thought of being loved as being pities or confused them. Unless MAYBE I have confused pity FOR love? I guess I could say I tend to love those I can pity in the sense that I can't ever seem to say no and people in need make me feel like I must take them in and heal them the best I can.... I might have to...

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  Trait 8: We became addicted to excitement.

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  Posted: 10/16/2018

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  Trait 8: We became addicted to excitement.I can relate to this to a degree. I go through sperts in my life where I want to stay home and not do much! Boring is peaceful. But as I got older I wanted more. I remember, before being pregnant, planning the next Friday night with anyone who wanted to hang out and doing something exciting. Party, dinners with games, attend anything that sounded fun that our local bar was doing, any thing that involved being social with my firends and kept my mind in...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/16/2018

  stcymcknz commented on the discussion Quick thoughts or advice....

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/15/2018

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  Weakness Post

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  Posted: 10/15/2018

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  Now, I haven't properly "mourned" kicking my dad out- if that's a thing?? But I am now at work trying NOT to cry my eyes out...I recieved two picture messages from my dad and decided I wasn't strong enough to look at them! So I waiting... then I looked today and it turns out... the two pictures were of his books (self published author- but doesn't make money) at the local library! Apparently, they bought his books and are displaying them for people to rent out!!!! Which is very exciting and I...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/15/2018

  stcymcknz commented on the discussion Quick thoughts or advice....

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/15/2018

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  Journal Like

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  Posted: 10/15/2018

  stcymcknz liked gingergirl1961's journal the Monster is not Dead.... it was only asleep.