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  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Posted: 08/15/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Societal problems to fix?.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

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  Posted: 08/15/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Separating amicably.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Posted: 08/15/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Separating amicably.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Posted: 08/15/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Separating amicably.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Posted: 08/15/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion She is NOT 'Mommy'.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Societal problems to fix?

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Last Reply: Cora 08/27/2019

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  So a thought occurred to me:  We all take a lot of hell thanks to this experience, and we take it on multiple fronts.  Some of this is due to ours, and other people's upbringing.  For example:1. Society doesn't seem to acknowledge that married cis women have a sexuality, and sexual deprivation is just as bad for us as it is for anybody else.  We need to teach the young people in our lives that they're allowed to have a sexuality, and when utilized responsibly, this is nothing to be ashamed...

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Posted: 08/08/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Tired of/ ANGRY about the lack of support.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/07/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Tired of/ ANGRY about the lack of support.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Posted: 08/07/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion She is NOT 'Mommy'.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

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  Posted: 08/03/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion fading away.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/03/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Not supportive. Don't know how to.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  She is NOT 'Mommy'

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Last Reply: confusedfairy 08/15/2019

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  Been a while since I've been on here.  Our divorce was finalized March 5 of this year, and while her coming out as trans certainly brought out the absolute worst in her, it wasn't truly what destroyed our divorce.  A variety of horrible behaviors and personality traits, some of which were already there, were what did it.  If she had transitioned kindly, and had been nice to me throughout the process, I likely would have stayed married.  In any case- per the terms of our divorce- she will...

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  Posted: 04/03/2019

  confusedfairy became friends with gallinarosa.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: confusedfairy

  Posted: 04/03/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Tired of/ ANGRY about the lack of support.

• Spouses of Transgender
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 04/03/2019

  confusedfairy commented on the discussion Things are bad.