Cole50
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Been a while since I've posted anything. The good reason for that is things have been going fairly well, better than expected. The last two weeks since writing the letter mentioned in the previous...
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I decided to put this in a separate post so that it doesn't get lost in the issues I was discussing in the first one for today.Earlier, I had asked on the Infidelity board if it would be a good idea...
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We went to our MC session Monday. Discussed some things. She had us fill out the needs assessment forms. Doing so brought a couple of realizations to me that I'd not considered before. So I'll share...
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Not a whole lot to report. At least crisis wise. Seems at least for the time being, the roller coaster of emotions has quieted down. My wife appears to be doing all she can to work on her own...
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Our counseling session went well last night. No big problems like the last time. The therapist gave us some homework. Got to figure out what my most important needs I want met from our marriage. One...
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Since Wednesday, things have improved. Thursday and Friday I felt more able to focus on things at work, and less obsessed about the A. Still think about it a lot, and still feel some depression, but...
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Today marked the 2 week anniversary of dday. I'm not sure if that is the reason or what, but so far the two Wednesday's since dday have been the hardest days at work. Last Wednesday I left work after...
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Now that I'm fairly well caught up, I figured I would just date them as a log, journal, whatever, of my experiences from here on out. What I'm going through, etc.I need to go back a bit, however, to...
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I was glad things worked out so that I wasn't waiting until we arrived at the B&B we were going to go to for our 29th anniversary before I dropped the bomb that I knew. The two hour drive there would...
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After reading the chat log where my wife straight out told another man in chat that she'd had sex and cheated on me with another man, I was devastated, as I spoke of in the previous post. I sat in...
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Last year, 2010, my wife who cleans houses and businesses, worked at a local business. They hired a new employee which appeared to get my wife's attention from the start. This guy was experienced at...
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I'm not sure exactly how to start this. It's been just over a week ago now when I discovered my wife was seeing another man, having sex with him. As a matter of fact, it was about 2:00 pm (one hour...
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Last night marked a small milestone. Which is appropriate considering it was around this time last year when my W was first struck with serious infatuation and sexual spark from this man.For a brief...
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May 11th, 2011, a day that will live in infamy. At least, for me and my wife. Early that morning after my W had gone to bed, I got on her computer to read my first log that I had recorded after...
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I realized something of interest this past week. Saturday when my wife was reading "Not Just Friends" in the car while we drove, it mentioned how one of the things BSs in affairs do to recover is to...
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