Cole50
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I see it has been nearly two months since I posted the last entry. Right around the time I lost my job, so I guess that has been the focus of things these past couple of months. Still haven't found a...
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Today we finished up the eradication of connections. And she has even gone further than I thought.She'd deleted the pictures of the first man and the second man everywhere except there is this one...
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Time for an update. We've experienced a minor setback, and some positive movement forward. And they are both tied together, so let me start back a ways.My wife, during her affairs, naturally took...
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Our situation continues to improve as far as dealing with the after affects of the adultery. As I mentioned a few weeks ago, my wife came to the point of seeing what she'd done from my point of view,...
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I guess these have turned into weekly updates. Well, here's the next one. Issue 1From my perspective, this is a positive step. This week my wife moved from feeling the victim of her circumstances...
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Yesterday, we encountered a little bump in the road, and it revealed to me the degree of what I've said in the previous post really is true.We were talking about the events where I had realized how...
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Been a while since I've posted anything. The good reason for that is things have been going fairly well, better than expected. The last two weeks since writing the letter mentioned in the previous...
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I decided to put this in a separate post so that it doesn't get lost in the issues I was discussing in the first one for today.Earlier, I had asked on the Infidelity board if it would be a good idea...
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We went to our MC session Monday. Discussed some things. She had us fill out the needs assessment forms. Doing so brought a couple of realizations to me that I'd not considered before. So I'll share...
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Not a whole lot to report. At least crisis wise. Seems at least for the time being, the roller coaster of emotions has quieted down. My wife appears to be doing all she can to work on her own...
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Our counseling session went well last night. No big problems like the last time. The therapist gave us some homework. Got to figure out what my most important needs I want met from our marriage. One...
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Since Wednesday, things have improved. Thursday and Friday I felt more able to focus on things at work, and less obsessed about the A. Still think about it a lot, and still feel some depression, but...
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Today marked the 2 week anniversary of dday. I'm not sure if that is the reason or what, but so far the two Wednesday's since dday have been the hardest days at work. Last Wednesday I left work after...
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Now that I'm fairly well caught up, I figured I would just date them as a log, journal, whatever, of my experiences from here on out. What I'm going through, etc.I need to go back a bit, however, to...
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I was glad things worked out so that I wasn't waiting until we arrived at the B&B we were going to go to for our 29th anniversary before I dropped the bomb that I knew. The two hour drive there would...
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