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This past Sunday at our church is often called, "Forgiveness Sunday," which starts out our Lent, today being the first day.One of the things I was reminded of is Jesus' statement that if we judge...
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I've still been feeling off the past few weeks. I've chalked it up to the aftershocks of the A mostly. Maybe being out of work is also contributing to it. But then I realized the other day that I am...
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Last night I decided to send my W an email. I've always heard that women like to know what's going on inside a guys head. And I am emotionally hard to read. And also, I tend to think through things...
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My W has noticed the last few days I seem bothered about something. She's mentioned it two or three times, and both times I labeled it as not getting done what I wanted to get done. Last week it...
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Okay, here's a short entry for once. (Hey, wipe that smile off your face!) Enjoy it while you can.Last week Gabi reached a new milestone in her healing. As we were talking in bed one night, she made...
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I posted last time about the trigger I had, which was the main point. But a side point that went along with what was happening came out, relating to our earlier dynamic with our kids.Well, looking...
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Had an unexpected trigger yesterday. Well, I guess triggers are usually unexpected, or they wouldn't be triggers, now would they? lol.I woke up yesterday and received some text from my W as is often...
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May 11th, 2011, a day that will live in infamy. At least, for me and my wife. Early that morning after my W had gone to bed, I got on her computer to read my first log that I had recorded after...
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I realized something of interest this past week. Saturday when my wife was reading "Not Just Friends" in the car while we drove, it mentioned how one of the things BSs in affairs do to recover is to...
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I see it has been nearly two months since I posted the last entry. Right around the time I lost my job, so I guess that has been the focus of things these past couple of months. Still haven't found a...
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Today we finished up the eradication of connections. And she has even gone further than I thought.She'd deleted the pictures of the first man and the second man everywhere except there is this one...
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Time for an update. We've experienced a minor setback, and some positive movement forward. And they are both tied together, so let me start back a ways.My wife, during her affairs, naturally took...
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Our situation continues to improve as far as dealing with the after affects of the adultery. As I mentioned a few weeks ago, my wife came to the point of seeing what she'd done from my point of view,...
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I guess these have turned into weekly updates. Well, here's the next one. Issue 1From my perspective, this is a positive step. This week my wife moved from feeling the victim of her circumstances...
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Yesterday, we encountered a little bump in the road, and it revealed to me the degree of what I've said in the previous post really is true.We were talking about the events where I had realized how...
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