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Status: lost my husband in Jan 2011.His life was cut short by cancer.
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- I have not been to this website for good few months. On Jan31 was 5 yrs since my Tom died! I was doing ok for long time but the anniversary got me! Have had hard days in last 2 weeks! It feels like he just died..... I still miss him so much! Grief...
- It has been almost 4.5 yrs since my husband died. It has been like you all know very hard journey!During week when I work seems to be easier but weekends are really hard! I feel so lonely! Part of me would like to meet someone - friend,companion......
- I used to enjoy Holidays! After my husband died 4 yrs ago I still feel pain in my heart and more stress around Special days! I hope with time it will be easier..... Memories and love are powerful!Do you create new Traditions to help your broken...
- After 4.5 yrs of grief I feel now that my my body reacts more quickly and deeply to stressful moments in life! I think we do not even realize how much stress we are under when we go through grief and we reach a point when we are just so tired in...
- At the end of January will be 4 yrs since I lost my husband. First year was very hard,second and third a little better and now for some reason I feel like reality of the lost hit me very hard and I feel anxious, have panic attacks and it feels...
- Just want to share about our new ritual.On first Anniversary of my Husband's Death my son said to me - Mom lets go to have dinner in Dad's favorite restaurant and order all what he liked.This is what we did-had his favorite dinner,wine,chocolate...
- When my husband was sick and then shortly after he died more then a year ago i lost my appetite but in last few months I have such a hard time with cravings- especially chocolate and sweets. I have been trying to eat balanced diet and take care of...
- I would like to share information about books written by James E. Miller.They bring comfort and are very helpful!! I highly recommend them!!You can check his publishing company -Willowgreen Publishing for more info.One of my favorite books is "What...
- Every day I read one or more pages of my favorite book about grief!It is very helpful! The title is "Healing after loss -daily meditations for working through grief " by Martha Whitmore Hickman.it cost only 10 $ and has been very comforting to me...
- I would like to thank everybody for your advice and support!!I am so grateful that we can share and talk about our journey!I do feel so much better after I vented about my physical symptoms and grief in general!You are good support!!Peace.Ann
- My husband died a year ago.I was taking care of him for almost 4 months when he had cancer!I thought I was doing all the right things during my grief last year!!. I have been taking my vitamins,walking,doing some yoga ,seeing grief counselor twice...
- I would like to recommend very good book-"Widow to widow"by Genevieve Davis Ginsburg,MS. It is very thoughtful and full of practical Ideas!!!Ann
- My husband died of lung cancer 3 months ago today.He was sick for 3 months and he really did not have any symptoms earlier.I feel very sad because for years he did take great care of himself-very good diet and he was very active and slim!!When he...
- Do you believe that our loved ones may "come" to us in our dreams?Shortly after my husband died ( 3 months today)I had very vivid dream like he was standing next to me and in this dream he said- "please do not let my illness ruin your life,live for...
- it has been 4 weeks since my Husband died and I still wait for his life insurance and 401K money from his company.I called them and informed them about his death more then 3 weeks ago.I would like to ask other widows and widowers about your ...