Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Paula
Life insurance....you have to call them, ritually...each time I called ours the letter, forms or check was popped off in the mail the day I called. I received the first one with 2 weeks....the second part because it was an accident I had to wait until the toxicology report came in. In my county it took 7 weeks...I just sent the form to request the report...and should receive it by Monday....and will get that off to the Life Insurance company....I estimate that one should take just 2 weeks too...
Be well...hugs,
Oluwa
As for the medical bills, if they are in his name, write deceased on the envelope and send them back, some may re bill you others will not. If you are re billed, tell them you are waiting for the life insurance money, most places will not pester you again.
@heartsick1 - That doesn't sound right that they would ask you for every scrap of identity documentation. I don't think that's reasonable. I would send them a letter and put a "cc" on it to my lawyer. You'd be amazed how fast some things move once they think you've got a lawyer involved.
Love and Hugs, Martha
Life insurance that came to me (he also had his parents covered) took about 2 months. There was much more paperwork to fill out on that for some reason.
Also, be careful about the 401K, taxes are pretty steep if you try to take the cash. I had Jacks rolled over to me. As much as you do not have the energy to face day to day life, this stuff is a ful time job and will be for a number of months. Best of luck.
I called HR office this week and left already 3 messages but nobody called me back.It is very stressful!! I hope soon I will get my money and I will not have to deal with my Husband's company again.Love,Ann