Ann, I am at the 3 month mark but haven't had dreams with Mike in them (that I can recall) but...your message was a good read for me as Sunday is always a cry day for me. Maybe tonight there will be a special dream ;-)

On Wednesday, May 4, it will be one year since Rob passed. I finally had a dream with Rob in it last night .. it was so profound and woke me up around 3:30. I've been waiting for a dream and finally got it!

I beleive that our loved ones, the connections that follow us through time are constantly tugging at us. Making us aware that we are still connected to them. After all, what would life be without the love that enters our worlds. Its what is worth experiencing in this life. Why shouldn't we accept that love can break through all barriers in this physical world.
I had three dreams, all not so good ( they are in my journal). I am hoping for a good one soon.
You are both so lucky to have received special dreams.

You are lucky to have dreams that make it special and comfort you.
i am waiting also.... But your stories are comforting to know they are there

I have waking thoughts ofmy husbnad's wisdom and kindness, and hear his voice encouraging me. It has been 1 year 5 months since his death. Hearing his words in my head does help me. When I am really distraught I think What would Louis think? What would he want for me? It calms me, and move forward for a time. I have had dreams, but they can be disturbing as well as pleasant, so I like to foucs during waking hours, and remember what I learned from him. Hugs to you.

thanks so much for your replies.Hugs.Ann

I have had a few dreams...they were several months after my husbands death...everyone else was having dreams about him except me. In most of my dreams I am always trying to get to him..but I would wake up when I reached him or sit down to talk to him. I fianlly had one where he walked into the room..and I jumped up and grabbed a hold him crying telling him that I had been having a terrible dream that he had died...but it was only dream that he was alive..I was telling him how awful it was...I didnt let go of him to even look at him...just holding onto him crying....so when I woke up I thought he was alive for a brief second..then reality hit me...talk about crying...
Our daughter had a dream about him too. ( he was killed in an auto accident) she dreamed of walking in a room and seeing him laying on a hospital table dead...she walked up and touched him and began to cry saying "Oh daddy"...well then all of a sudden he began to move and she took a step back...his arms started moving.. and.he said "Hallelujah!" Then sat up..and said, "Hallelujah" again...he said, "my arm hurts"...she said, "daddy you were killed in a wreck"...he looked at her and said, "Boogs, you cant kill a Christian we come back." Then she woke up...It was a wonderful reminder that he is still very much alive. My 9 year old grandaughter had a dream/vision of going to heaven and seeing him...what she saw convinces me even more how real heaven is. I believe they can come to us...

I had a dream about 3 weeks after his death. Holding hands and I was so happy to see him. I asked him why did you leave? "I didn't die." I said well lets call your cousin and everyone, "I'm here only for you." And will always be near". It was so real. But the next dream was this Easter, taking an afternoon nap..He is walking towards me and I tell him how wonderful and great he looks, Glowing, but then I yelled at him, on how hurt we all were. I instantly woke up, wishing that I hadn't yelled.

I most certainly believe. I had one after my Mom died, but not one from my husband. It seems these dreams always come with a message, letting us know they are alright. In your case, it was kind of like him telling you to move on with your life.

I often dream of my husband but I haven't had one of these vivid type dreams. I often wake up reminding myself that he is gone because in my dreams, we do a lot of things together. I so hope he will come to me even briefly, because I never really got the chance to say goodbye. One thing I remember after the dream about my Mom was that it gave me this unbelievable feeling of peace. Lucky are those that are granted this opportunity!

my wife of 28 yrs died feb 20,2011 swiftly from a rare disease that the doctors never fully diagnosed.I had 1 night shortly after her death when i had recurring nightmarish dreams almost as if i was reliving her suffering.Three weeks ago i had a dream that i had to rush home by 3 oclock(the time my wife died),the door was closed but a light was on,i knew my wife was behind the door,the door opened and my wife stepped out,she was in white and looked so beautiful,we hugged for what seemed like forever and it felt so real to me that i remember saying to myself that what we had gone through was in fact only a bad nightmare.In the moment i thought that ,i awoke and reality set in again.I do not know if it is our subconscience,a message from God, or something our limited minds can not figure out , but i do believe we will be reunited with our spouses.

I've had a couple of dreams about David in the early months. He always looked well and healthy. No messages, just comfort.

I have also felt him shaking the bed at night. Not so much any more (it's been 10 months). The kitchen lights flickered off and on all summer. I was going to call an electrician to have them looked at, but suddenly they stopped. It was then I figured out that David was trying to contact me. Normally if anybody had told me these things, I'd have thought they were nuts. But I've heard so many others with similar stories on this site.

I know they are still connected to us. Love is the bridge from our world to theirs.
Hugs

I do believe that they come back in our dreams. When I was a child my mother used to tell me how her grandmother used to come back and talk to her. Well, I was raised on horror films so I asked her not to do that to me. I said in a dream would be better. She passed away eleven years ago. For two months she used to come to me in my dreams and we would sit around and talk. Finally, one day she asked me if I was ready to let her go. She was ready to go to Heaven. I was sad, but knew that it was only right that she should go. So I told her yes. She smiled at me and dissappeared. I never saw her in my dreams in the same way.

Now when I dream of her it's obviously a dream. It has a dream like quality to it.

I dreamed of my husband after he passed. In one he came to me to tell me how incredibly happy he is. He told me he was studying nawee. When I woke up I couldn't figure out what he meant. I've always had strange hearing. Say something to me and I'll end up with something entirely wrong. My husband used to laugh about this all the time.

Anyhow, I spent hours looking up what this nawee or nahwee could be. Finally, I started separating different letters for the first letter. And came up with Yahweh. Yahweh is the Hebrew God in the bible. I'm not Jewish and would never use that name for God.

So there it is. Again, the feeling in this 'dream' was different. It felt real like I was actually talking to him. The dreams that followed feel like dreams. So it was a blessing I got to see him one last time when he was so happy.

God does grant visitations. No psychic needed.