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- Hi allI think i make the mistake in thinking, being in a relationship heals all etc etc. But it doesnt, you are still left with your own personal issues - like me. I come from a indian culture, dysfunctional family and have a lot of damage to heal....
- Hi allI have an unhealthy addiction / habit to smoking cannibis - about two joints or less a day. My partner smokes also. I know this is not going to help with the way i feel. I think it is negative and unhealthy and i need some help with this - how...
- Hi allDoes it mean if you are codependant, that you cannot have healthy relationships?
- Hi,I am fed up with feeling like crap, how do i set a boundry with my bro and sis in law - they treat me with disrepect - ignored my text, dont value my partner - have just judged him without even meeting him based on how much he earns - IVE HAD IT -
- Hi allJust want to say that my brother and sister in law treat me with disrespect. Last year i broke my wrist in india - and all my brother could do was have a go, no concern as i ended up unconscious after a fall in hospital. I ma fine now, but...
- Hi everyoneI want some advice on quitting, I have joined quitters, but i have stress in my life. I have had one and half rolled cigs today and am gonna put my patch on and see how long i can go without smoking! i want better skin and better health!
- Hi allI am sikh indian living in the uk. Just to let you all know the expected norm of being jatt sikh punjabi.1) GROWN UP, being controlled - 2) Get an education3) Get married in 20's to a sikh jatt punjabi guy4) Have a big fat wedding - expensive...
- Hi everyoneGoing against culture is very stressful and i am not coping at all. I don't really know what to do as i dont think i can cope with the pressure and the controls. I feel sick this morning and am stressed all the time.
- hi alli want to share this with everyone who may be codependent. I am definitely getting better. Here is a little example-My mum and dad r from india. My dads family is still over there, and well they are typical indian people -ive figured out why i...
- What would you call a healthy relationship, looking at it in every angle. I guess people want different things, i am in a mixed relationship which no one in my family approve of. Its both getting to us and im finding it harder and harder to cope. I...
- Hi allAt the moment all i feel like i do is work, work, work, and with xmas coming up- and having no money is no fun. I guess im trying to work to pay my overdraft off - but just getting down in the process - i cant afford much at the moment and its...
- I am going through such a tough time, and feel really unhappy. Have got money problems and family problems. I wish i could just switch off and stop thinking, but its so hard. I feel like anxious in my throat - and feel a little sick. I feel worn...
- Hi allHow important is money in a relationship. Im talking materialistic, but to have security in a relationship???
- I feel resentment in life, am not sure what about. I want balance in life, am stuggling financially, and learning to live within means. How do you deal with financial problems, when you have only one income coming in, in a relationship? And you dont...
- Hi allI had the worst day ever yesterday. I was so negative to myself and towards my boyfriend. I am in am mixed relationship and am finding it difficult. Why do i feel the need to take chunks out of myself. I say some horrible hurtful things to...