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- My husband died late December last year. I haven't dreamed of him until our 8th anniversary on November 2nd. He came in a dream. We were at a carnival or something similar and I spent the entire dream angry with him and he kept laughing at my as...
- That hurt a little, but I thought about it for a long time first.
- It's been 8 months and I think I'd like to move my wedding ring to my right hand.I DO NOT expect to find a replacement for my husband.I DO NOT expect to fall in love right away.I just think it would be nice to have a little attention once in a...
- Last night I had one of those chaotic-this makes no sense dreams. My grandpa who passed many years ago was there. He looked basically the same except his hair was brown instead of grey and he told me he was taking some class, but I never figured...
- The past two nights I've had dreams of seeking out hugs and hand holding and things like that from men other than my husband. ( Actually...I still haven't dreamt about Jim and I'm a little afraid.)I think maybe I'm not consciously acknowledging the...
- Last Friday was the internment for my husband who passed in December. (He was cremated and I was waiting for his headstone to be placed.)It went VERY well! The preacher kept it short and to the point while covering all of the bases. My dad told...
- Today I bury my husband who passed in December. He was cremated and I wanted to wait until his headstone was in place. Wish me luck.
- I was showing a friend something on my Facebook today and she says, "Ya know, you're back on the market now. Maybe you should change your picture."We all know here that it's not up to anybody else when you are "back on the market".People's...
- I lost my mom last July and my husband in December. These were my two best friends now I have none. I have friends, but they are married and most have kids. I have one friend that would like to fill their shoes, but it's not working that way on...
- I just got word last night that my husband's headstone should be in place next week some time. He was cremated and hasn't been interred yet. I was VERY upset at the thought of virtually doing a funeral again...still am. I didn't expect this to be...
- Since my husband passed in December I've been experiencing many things, some good and some not so much.I used to LOVE weddings and wedding photos and wedding stories, but lately I've been sorta hating them. They are like little stabs to my already...
- Does anybody else find themselves unusually easily irritated? Is this normal?I would consider myself a pretty level headed, easy going person. I've been referred to as "the rock" in high tension situations. But, lately I've noticed that I am...
- When my husband passed away I was advised to remove his name from the bank accounts so nobody could pose as him and have access to the accounts.Three years ago we had filed bankruptcy.With my new financial situation I decided to use some of his life...
- I FINALLY got those dreaded Thank You cards done last night! Three months later...but done nonetheless.Another hurdle cleared!
- I just need to rant and get something off my chest because it keeps really bothering me.The night that my husband died I made many phone calls. One was to my Aunt and Uncle's house because Jim and my Uncle had become very close. My Aunt answered...