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I'm a caregiver to my mom who has stage 4 cancer and fibromyalgia. We don't live together. I got a call from her today saying that she had a fever so she tried to drive herself to get a covid test but, even though she had been there before, she got lost going to the clinic. The thing is when she has an infection she gets confused like that. She parked and now her car wouldn't start. I asked her if she could call AAA by asking siri on her cell to do it but siri wasn't working for some reason. So I looked up AAA and tried to give her the number but she didn't have a way to write it down. So I ended up talking to her on the land line and called AAA on my cell phone. Her membership had expired so I had to relay information from one phone to another and get it set up again. The AAA guy came and fixed her car battery somehow. I told her to just drive home because she can't see well at night and it was getting late. She made it home okay but she's had symptoms like a cough, fever and fatigue so she probably has covid. So far she hasn't had any severe symptoms like respiratory problems but with her compromised immune system from cancer treatments covid could potentially kill her. She had called the doctor earlier and he said she didn't need to go to the hospital but I'm still worried.
Also I have a minor cough but no other symptoms; I hope I don't have it too.
Since then my mom went to the hospital and got a covid test. It was negative. It turns out she had a different sickness with similar symptoms. But I didn't walk the last few days in case I might have gotten covid from her.
Since she was negative I went back to walking today and walked 3 miles.
On my walk today a stranger confronted me on the sidewalk about what I taught at the college. It was obvious confirming I taught Spanish wasn't the happy answer for him. I might walk a different route this afternoon.
Only 5 and 1/2 months left until I've complete the 10 years required to be vested in my retirement pension and can leave town.
I'm glad you got 2 miles in. I got two walks in, windy and cold as it was, and I'm keeping that weight off as a result. I'm walking at night so I can socially distance from people on the street to stay safe.
Muji, sorry you were confronted by a stranger. That must have been scary for you? I’m glad nothing became of it and you were able to get your walks in. It must be exciting to have retirement so close now.
As a missionary kid turned adult I moved 5,000 miles from Latin America to claim my US citizenship from my missionary parents to be safe from unrest there that got me hurt. In Uruguay we had a rash of kidnappings and killings of neighbors of mine who were US citizens. As a result, we North American families had to stop Halloween parties and 4th of July picnics there and put our t-shirts with US flags on them away.
It's kind of ironic that in 128 days I'm moving out of a USA that's unsafe to me back to Latin America to stay safe. I've traveled there yearly since 2016 to see if it was safe for me back there now, and it is. No one there seems ready to slash my tires or fire a bullet through my car mirror over my English language. I didn't become bilingual by choice, I learned Spanish at church. It happened when I was a missionary kid raised by US citizen Appalachian missionaries abroad in Spanish speaking countries, so now that it's done I'm just trying to find how just to be myself safely and where.
For the next 128 days I will walk uphill on a different street than that stranger in my neighborhood who demanded to know what I taught at my community college job. Just in case. I drove the neighborhood this morning to map out my new walking route I can take to avoid him now.
I got two walks in yesterday, but it was really raw, raw cold. I have my parka and boots on, but my legs got cold from the biting wind. I'm going to shopping for long johns for my legs today.
Stay warm and keep up those walks. Your doing great!
Rizen, I hope you and your mom are ok. I am happy to hear you heard back on the dating site. Be well an d I hope you get some walking in.
I have just under two months of splinting left. I am slowly improving. I can’t wait til it’s over and I can get back to walking and other things I love to do.
Hoping to get walk #2 for today in during daylight so at least then it'll be a tad warmer. Fingers crossed. Hope you get to walk, Rizen. I know it's cold where you are, too.