Yes, fingers crossed.

I just got my call - 12 eggs (8 mature), 7 fertilized. we won't know until tomorrow whether it will be a day 3 or day 5 transfer.

Then I was reading on-line and some docs recommend up to 1 week bedrest! Everywhere I turned said no sex or orgasms for the 2WW, try to stay lying down for 60 minutes after implantation...these all seem somewhat stricter than what my doc said. I just need to trust my doc, right?

I do know no sex. UGH! I wanted to do DH before hand but he refused saying we needed an extra day for an excellent speciment. lol. Hoping I feel better by tomorrow to want to do it with him...

That's a great report endo!!! YAY you!!! How are you feelin overall? Can't wait to hear if it's a 3 day or 5 day transfer.....praying your embies are growing and healthy!!! Ha ha about no sex.....my RE told me to wait til after transfer.......so good luck :-) haha

That IS great news, endo! I hope you have many to use and to freeze!

fingers crossed whims and congratulations endo on all your little embabies.

i'm feeling a little down. had lunch with a really good friend today and her 4mth old daughter. we talked baby, baby, baby - hers. She didn't even ask how my treatment was going (she's the only one I've told). I feel like a non-person, like without a baby I have nothing to contribute.
This friend has a whole new world - she fitted me in for lunch today as the mother and baby group she was meant to go to was cancelled. And now we've another lunch scheduled next wk - with another friend of mine who I introduced her to. So, it'll be me, 2 mothers and their 2 babies.
Its too much
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Thank you, nive, adk and endo! Your support has been incredible!

Hopefully, how's it going for you?

BFN. I don't even know how I feel. Numb I guess would be the best description. Thanks for all of the support ladies. I'm praying for each of you and I soooooo hope you get your miracles!

I know there is a plan out there for us, I just really wish I knew what it was. I really wish I understood so many things right now.

o hopefully, i am so, so sorry for you.
its horrendous, the pain.
talk care of yourself, let hubbie take care of you and lean on each other.
there is a plan...thus, there is hope.
x

@Hopeful, I'm so sorry to hear the news.

Please stay hopeful, the answers are in your future. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow...but I know good things are coming for you.

I'm crying with you...

Hopefully, I am so sorry. I really believe you will get your answers and be wonderful parents one day. Please know I am thinking of you and sending you prayers xoxo

Hopefully, I am so sorry! You are such a strong and wonderful person to stay optimistic and hopeful for everyone else when you are experiencing pain. Don't give up. Not knowing is one of the worst things in the world, but you'll pull through! :::hugs:::

I'm feeling so lost and sad. Thank you for all of the support, it means so much to me. How about a pick me up... anyone else get there results yet? I'd love nothing more than to hear that each of you get an amazing BFP!!

hopefully, your so selfless, thinking of others receiving BFP's in your sadness. your a much bigger person than I.
i test on sat, am a nervous wreck, trying to stay positive but its hard.
i'll do my best to make you smile with a BFP on sat! x

nive, I'll be sending you some sticky baby dust for Saturday. I hope things go well.

I'm still so sad by hopeful's news. Damn infertility! It doesn't have us beat damn it.

So heard from the doc today: 2 are 4 cells, 2 are 3 cells, and 3 are 2 cells so we're going for a day 5 transfer on Saturday. I kinda wish it were a day 3 so the 2WW would be faster...but whatever. I'll have to be patient.

DH wants to get a hotel room across the street from the clinic so we don't have to drive an hour after the procedure. What do you think? nuts? or slightly reasonable?

I think it's reasonable. Especially if you want to relax after and not be sitting in a car the whole way home.