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on the matter regarding a dating relationship. i have been dating a woman for a out 3 months, and she is starting to dictate who my friends are. I have a female friend that is like a sister to me and I am now being told that I talk to and visit her way to much. C (the lady I am dating) doesn't have a problem if I hang out with my guy friends and do whatever..... but she doesn't believe that males and females can be friends with out hanky panky going on.......Several women on the boad know me, and we have hung out at some meetups......I consider them as friends and can talk and visit, the feel as if they are family. This seems like she is asking me to give up family.....and I am fairly sure the next step will be to not hang with the guy friends...... and then family....I have
DUNN that and I will never do that again.......Am I being paranoid?
All opinions welcomed......I think I may be about to become a monk..... Naw I like people to much......
thanks
AJJ.
DUNN that and I will never do that again.......Am I being paranoid?
All opinions welcomed......I think I may be about to become a monk..... Naw I like people to much......
thanks
AJJ.
And I've found it sad and painful to give up friendships because my partner was uncomfortable, just as I've found it sad and painful to have been given up.
It seems like it shouldnt have to be the case, afterall, I know how trustworthy and committed *I* am, but a committment to someone starts to come first after awhile.
It is classic either or in relationships. It will never end as long as we are men and women on a superficial plane..
I guarantee you ladies that even men you consider as just friends (heterosexual men) have jacked off to you at least once.
Sally: "Aha! By that logic, men can be friends with women you're not attracted to."
Harry: "No, you pretty much want to nail them, too."
Too many people are of this opinion for there not to be anything to it.
You don't want to know what it's really like in our heads, ladies. You wouldn't like it there.
I'm not your close friends anymore.
*giggle*
and I dont think it has to if both people want to keep it as friends
or if one does and the other is respectful of their wishes
but thats true of marriages and other friendships too, things flow in and out that can be potential sources of conflict or change or a "point of no return" that have nothing to do with sex.
A lot of people feel things though, lust, greed, hunger, thirst, BOREDOM and cant tolerate them, they think to feel something means to act on it, and thats not the case
for either gender.
You assume if a guys happy in his relationship, he won't think about sex with other women.
I'm under the presemption that's not true.
Sometimes, it can take as little as a VPL for us to start imagining you naked. As much as we won't want to.