Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I am finding that the less I think about the "good" times and the more I think about the things that really annoyed me, pissed me off or the stupid things my stbx did, the better and stronger I feel.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
1. He was the master of "piles". He'd leave piles of shit everywhere...paperwork, receipts everything. And when I asked him to pick it up...what would he do? Move piles into other piles around the house.
2. He'd shave his face and leave little hairs all over the bathroom sink.
3. He has horrible aim with the toilet and must dribble or something because whenever I need to pee, I always end us stepping in something sticky. Pisses me off. (no pun intended)
4. He's clean up the litterboxes but would not sweep. Drove me up the wall. Nothing like leaving a job half finsihed.
5. He'd leave dirty pans nad dishes in the stove and microwave, so that I'd always find little "surprises" around the house.
BLECH!!!
Another time, he and my mother were arguing on the phone. He busted out laughing, after arguing for some time. I asked him, "What did my mother say?". I ended up laughing with him, and so did my mother. The argument turned to laughter. You're still wondering what she said, aren't you?
She said, "Don, you got a paper asshole!".
I guess he, Don, had a good mental picture of that!
But your stories are amazing :)