Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group

The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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  • survivor301

    looking for love

    I don't know what to say in this forum. It is easiest to say that I want a partner who is special. I don't want to be treated like a sex object nor have a woman who is content on being treated as such. That takes all the enjoyment out of sex for me. I want somebody that can make me laugh and I make her laugh. I want an inspirational woman. Attempting to be those things is obviously like being a...
  • PerpetualPeoplePleaser

    How many attempts?

     I lost my virginity when I was 18. I didn't have sex for another year because of the guilt I had. Then, at 19, I started having sex again. This was a period when I was promiscuous and unapologetic. I was always protecting my body (condoms etc.). But I can't say I was protecting my heart. I started to internalize these feelings of obligation to the opposite sex. Even when I didn't want to, I...
  • RodriMari9

    New and Scared

    I have been struggling with the fact that i sometimes use sex to cope with my feelings and be a distraction from my life when I dont like where it is headed. I realized after a couple of months that i need to regain control of my life and need to block sex out and practice celibacy and am now very scared. How did any of you cope in the beginning and what are something you can or can not do? 
  • Taustin2

    I relapsed by getting oral andnow I feel bad.

    hi guys it was 6 long months yesterday really being able to focous on me. But in between those times its been frequent mastubation now I know the reason for my relapse was because I was still masturbating inceasing my curiousity of wanting to engage in something to relieve that stress. Before doing it I thought it would be the answer to everthing. I thought things wouldbe better because it wasnt...
  • StillCounting45

    18 Plus Months

    Good morning or hello.Straight to the point. I've been completely abstinent now for 18 plus months. I'm in my 19th month. I never thought it was possible for anyone like me to be without sex, not even masturbating, for so long.But. It is possible.I was addicted to masturbation, fantasizing and porn. Btw, I've been abstinent from porn for 12 going on 13 months now, and do resist the desire, with...
  • Withapurpose

    Life dedicated to my daughter

    I decided to go on Celibacy because of my daughter. She was abducted by her mother and since then I struggle to see her. In order to see her I moved to the country she was abducted to since legally I found no answer in my own country. I feel very lonely and sometimes I felt that loneliness could be very damaging by allowing the wrong people in my life. Fortunately that awareness come sooner than...
  • zebrafinch

    I've decided against relationships

    Hi everyone. I've decided to become celibate simply because I feel that romantic relationships are too painful and cause too much stress. I haven't been sexual with anyone in more than a year, and don't intend to be so in the future. I don't really face that much temptation in my day to day life; I feel sort of as if that part of my brain has simply been shut off, though I'm not asexual. I'd...
  • Monica123

    I feel sick......

    I was just browsing through my social media account and came to find my ex under a different name. It makes me sick to my stomach that I was affiliated with him for six years. I've made sure that he doesn't contact me again by blocking him, but why does he keep popping up? I don't want to give him anymore of my energy anymore. I just want to move on and not revert back to my old ways. 
  • andrea77


    hi. New member. I am interested in being celibate for a while, because of another failed long term relationship. Really sad right now but I think this might be a really positive solution for a while. 
  • Dcteach


    So I am 32, a mother of a 3 year old. I have decided to become abstinent until marriage after having sex in relationship after relationship. I have been abstinent for nearly four months and no masterbation either! Pray for Me! I am a Christian and have decided to submit to God's clear instructions about sex. I'm tired of doing it my way. Ok, well hopefully I can be a support and find support here...
  • RedGeek

    Change is good

    Hi...so I just joined and getting inspired by the stories...I decided on this huge step in my life after being into four subsequent dishonest relationships. ..4 to me is a big number and I realized I have been having meaningless sex. My friends tell me to embrace myself, my sexuality and I refuse to do so...I can't sit down and cry again over and over again about being used...it's time I tried a...
  • SoRayaaa

    Subject subject

    So I lost my virginity May 1st 2017 which was 2 months ago and I'm 20 years old about to be 21. Ever since I did that I felt like nothing good has came from it because, pussy is so easy to get now even if yours is good and brand new it doesn't matter. Anyway I just think it was better when I was a virgin. I want to go back to not having sex with anyone but since I already had sex it might be...
  • Monica123

    New to this !

    Hi my name is Monica I'm 24 years old and 4 months ago I broke up with my partner of 6 years. I am actually in 2 minds if I want to be celibate or not.I have remained abstinent since the break up and, am stick and tired of being in a relationship where I've been taken advantage of. I have always put my other half first instead of looking after myself. I've come to a point where I've given up on...
  • PinkBerry


    So, I just got off the phone with somebody I used to date a few years ago. I never really moved on and neither has he and now it seems like things might be getting started again. However, I was not celibate before when we were dating. We never had sex but we did fool around quite alot. He knows im celibate now. However, he is asking more about it and what the details include. Im just nervous that...
  • Shesmiles

    New to the Celibate lifestyle.

    Hi, I am 21 and I haven't had sex for a month now. I plan on continuing this until I marry the one that is for me. I thought it would a great idea to join a group of people who are trying to do the same things. With my generation there is not much support for not having sex, it seems as if its okay to mess around and I got caught in that lifestyle but know it's not right for me now. Soo I wish...