I liked sex so much that my essential parts gave out around a decade ago. Ouch.

Why my husband is still with me is a bit of a mystery, but it rocks. Who woulda guessed that love could go deeper than 6"?

rollerskater66 there are men and women who are asexual but would like a relationship. These days its possible for asexuals to find each other. Just make it clear you are seeking a sexless relationship / sexless marriage.

To the I don't like sex person. I certainly understand . After I had a needless surgery, I lost all interest in it. The sad part is one still wants a permanent and meaningful relationship but it appears impossible to find others that feel the same way. There must be others out there that feel the same way. I'm seriously wondering if there is a way to start a group like this where people can meet once or twice every couple of months.

Dear conga1

I did a similar thing a few years ago and also have lived to regret it. No one realizes how serious depression is until it hits you. I too am looking for employment as a result of my poor decisions.

Annebugs

Dear Rollerskater66

Have you found any groups that relate to what some of us are going through?
Annebugs

Its certainly possible to have a relationship without sex. You are not alone. While being asexual is uncommon, it is not unnatural. Its a matter of finding the right person. And being upfront from the outset.

I was a very sexual person but have been in a sexless marriage for many years. At first it was awful, then tolerable. Now honestly I am happiest that way.

I will also mention that there is a half or part way. There are some people who reject intercourse but are open to other forms of sexual intimacy. Not saying that is your situation at all - but just be aware of that when looking for a partner.

As women and men age, our capabilities sexually may change. Some of us don't have issues, but many men have issues with erections and women with lubrication. Hey, our bodies are trying to tell us something.

I do wonder if i will ever have sex again or even marry again.
I know that i cant have sex outside of marriage no matter what, it will lead to a lot of emotional pain and hurt.
I am learning what real intimacy is, which is taking time and going to be worth it I know.
Sex for me has caused so much mental pain and hurt not only for me but for many others as well.
Its only been a little over 9 months since my break down, but I still am not comfortable with someone touching me. Being sexually sober has helped me in many other ways. I am thankful for the SA program. it has helped me a lot.

I don't like sex either. I do not have a libido. I do not masturbate and I don't have sex. I am 44 years old. I am VERY lonely and I want a relationship, but it is hard to find a man that doesn't want sex.

I guess I’m one of this man. I can be the perfect husband, best friend and keep a really good relationship as long as there’s no sex involved. I’m 46