koolman
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- In a first-time partner, my feeling is that the enticement involves asking very suggestive questions and then listening for the desired responses, getting in touch with another's thoughts, feelings, desires and fantasies, then initiating words that...
- I want to feel completely comfortable with someone, feel sexual sizzle when I look into her eyes and admire her body, have her feel the same.Where did all of you meet your SOs or spouses? Did you feel these things at first and then it waned, or are...
- I've been meeting pretty young ladies who seem more dreamy and romantic in their desires, and some more mature ladies who have "been there, done that" and simply want to fulfill their sexual desires. Which do y'all prefer? I find myself more...
- is one considered "prime real estate" to move in on? 2 months? Give them time to grieve and get over the separation? Some people jump right into another relationship after they've just broken up with someone, and then residual feelings for the ex...
- OK...I'm still in my "moral dilemma" mode.Does anyone find that when they go too far out on the "wild side" (more is better) and try every sexual trick in the book (BJ, cunninglus, anal, whatever puts your freak on) that they lose sweetness in...
- ...somewhere in between (how you are and what you like in a partner)?I prefer somewhere in between. Having trouble finding this in South Florida.
- A sexual relationship is supposed to be wonderful, yet I hear so many stories here about how one person is "not getting enough" or how he wants to do something that she doesn't or vice versa, and it seems overlapping alterior fantasies are a recipe...
- Allow your heart to get lost in her (which is what she wants) yet still retain some semblance of your own individuality and masculinity (which is also what she wants, because it's what attracted her to you in the first place)? I find this a very...
- I'm a pretty physically strong guy, but every time I get around a woman who kinda sparks as we talk and who I could conceivably have a sensational relationship with, I get shy and withdrawn. My heart requires a "kick-start" and, after repeated...
- I kept dancing around the fact that I miss my brother until last night, I simply settled in, lied down on the couch, closed my eyes and opened my heart directly to him. I said "How are you, Markee? I miss you as much as I'm sure you miss me (the...
- "I want this" and "I want that"...spells an obnoxiously selfish person and a major turnoff for me--time to change the station on the FM tuner! Anyone else feel the same?Once in awhile, the "I" word is necessary, but...every sentence?Just once, it'd...
- Welcome to South Florida. One of the women in my pool began talking about her "profession", said "why do you think I can lay out at the pool all day?" and qualified her profession as "not prostitution but art". This same woman says she needs heat...
- Can't people just say "I'm lonely, you're lonely...let's get together" and simply enjoy each other's company?
- Damn! Four new hot women moved into my apartment complex, were laying out at our pool, and I just had to introduce myself and swim a bit with them! Hit it off with Aggie, this gorgeous blonde, looking hot as hell in her cute black bikini. Talked...
- not the lack. That's what's helping me. When I feel the black abyss of emptiness settling in, I meditate and pray for new life and new people to come into my life and heart to fill the void. It's happening. Ask and ye shall receive; it shall be...