ok i met "D" cause he lives across the street my roommate called me when i was at the mall and said the hot guys from across the street were cleaning the boat near the pool and i should come home so i did around 5pm and spen the entire night talking to him and his roommates then we were at my house talking and one thing lead to another and we slept together it was great. but i think it could also be part of our problems. But yea i felt something when we talked and he seemed nervous so i grabbed him and kissed him i couldnt take it anymore i just wanted him more then anything else i have wanted and i still feel that way.

With my husband we met and I was interested but didn't have that major spark right away it kind of developed . I've had that "whoa baby" feeling with different guys I had dated before that but like the saying goes (how does that one go again? lol) anyways it says something about the hottest fires die the fastest or something like that?

We've been married for 3 years and have been living with each other for about 7. We have a 4 year old son and another on the way so so expect that sizzle to be there all the time is totally unrealistic. I mean there is warmth sometimes and sometimes some heat but it's unrealistic to have that "whoa baby" all the time. I think people that expect that alllllll the time are the ones that get the most disappointed in the end.

Slow burn: Yep, I think you're onto something there, peep. Be great to have bursts of that "whoa baby" every now and then tho-! Guess that's what Victoria's Secret, Bowflex and date nights are for-!

Or maybe a part-time relationship? Not to cheat, but to simply have a few days a week ALONE, to recharge batteries, miss each other and get hot for each other again-? Dual careers make part-timing very much a reality-!

Koolman I want that to and I am married...lol I met my hubby at collage. I thought he was his brother( who I ws BFs with from 6th grade to 12th) that was back in 94 and we have been together ever since. But as you know my story. I want wht you want. and when you know how to find it and where please let me know :)

We met at work and started out with a friendship-but the tension was always there.

I met my husband 8 years ago and fancied the pants off him...then we had the kids we weren't intimate as much.

Now the kids are older we have more time for each other again...it's great.

Hubby and I met on a dating website lol I was on it for a little while before I met him but once we met in person wow! Sparks have been flying ever since and we're expecting our first child :) True love comes in places where you least expect it. Hubby and i originally met only for one "outing" (if ya know what I mean) and within a few hours we decided to stay together. Once you meet that special person you know instantly.

Sounds good. I'm trying to put myself in "singles" situations and remain open so that, when that bolt of lightning hits, I won't be too numb to feel it.

I'm on true.com by the way. Going slowly...