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- Yes, I'm really feeling that way today. I've never felt this kind of anger before, ever. My attorney filed for divorce, the day after it had been a year since we separated. No complaints about that! Why my previous attorneys wouldn't file for...
- Even though I've made a conscious effort to get out and about this year and stay in touch with friends, I'm finding it a little odd. I have lots of friends but all are married. Some of them are on their second marriages. I've found that they are...
- Sometimes I think you just need a little bit of time to clear you head, catch your breath and renew your spirit. So, today is my day. Today, I will not think about anything but me and the things that make me feel good. I will not do anything...
- This came across my Facebook newsfeed yesterday. Was so touched by it. Thought you all might enjoy. Have some Kleenex handy. http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/06/love-like-the-ocean/
- So, tomorrow open enrollment begins for Obamacare. At the moment, it looks like I won't be eligible for the tax credit, which means that "affordable" care really won't be any different than what I have now through my husband's employer. Almost the...
- So, Thanksgiving is coming. Daughter feels like she's been put in a very awkward position and she has. Who to have Thanksgiving with…mom or dad. She feels like no matter what choice she makes, she's going to hurt one of us. I'm trying to let...
- I do not want to file for divorce. Litigation is simply not an option because of the cost. But, I'm being forced to ask for less than I need so it will look good to a judge. I haven't padded my numbers. They are not out of line but my H is a...
- Anyone? My third attorney is recommending this as opposed to rehabilitative alimony.
- My attorney today remarked that she thought H's 401K was low for what she's used to seeing with men his age and income level. He's a corporate attorney. I was wondering what would be considered typical. We were talking about the possibility of...
- So, there is a reunion coming up and part of me is dying to go. I had a lot of fun in high school, dated a lot and just really enjoyed that time. The other part of me is skeptical, not because of my new marital status, but because the word...
- Between getting my house ready to sell, then scrambling every time an agent wants to show it, to dealing with problem attorneys, yes, I am ready to get out of here for a few days. I've been wanting to go to the mountains and a friend of mine has...
- Sigh. I don't know whether to scream or cry at this point. I may do both. I had not heard from my attorney for three weeks. She was supposed to contact my financial planner with a couple of concerns about discrepancies in my H's numbers and an...
- This should be an interesting week. Haven't heard from my attorney in three weeks. She was supposed to contact my financial planner to ask a question and then get back to me. She hasn't. I emailed her paralegal, who always responds immediately,...
- So, we continue to struggle with our settlement. I know deep down that I need to get away from my H financially. I DO NOT want any kind of financial relationship with him, ever again. But, lump sum just isn't going to work. Alimony and cash is...
- For the past few years, I've had this guy - a married man - I became friends with online. It was a FB group for the neighborhood I grew up in. We went to the same high school but graduated a few years apart. I noticed he kept liking all my posts,...