Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

There are different levels of insurance in Obamacare make sure the coverage is comparable to what you have now.
Believe me when I tell you that most of us "Yanks" are wishing we had a national health care plan like Canada does!
I have to change to a Florida insurance plan by the end of the year. Heretofore, I have been with my Maryland plan and ONLY just satisfied the $2,500 deductible from July 2013 (they extended the coverage for an additional 6 months because they are discontinuing the Maryland Health Insurance Plan). My monthly premium is $439.00 -- it's like paying for nothing with such a high deductible for just one person!
Fortunately, since I am living off the profit from the sale of my farm, my "income" is minimal (calculated on actual interest paid on my investments that I use for my living expenses) so I will qualify for the subsidy. But with rates for Floridians much higher than those in Maryland, it will probably be a "wash."
What's wrong with healthcare in this country is that the PROVIDERS charge outrageous amounts -- God help you if you just have a little mishap and need to go to the ER! Our government needs to go in and overhaul the entire health care PROVIDER system and get these costs under control -- not the other way around.
If your divorce isn't yet final and assuming that your stbx's insurance will continue on to 2015, there is no rush to apply for individual coverage. He CANNOT DROP YOU IF YOUR DIVORCE ISN'T FINAL!
Right now is Open Enrollment, but that's for people who are shopping for better rates or different coverage. It's my understanding that you have 30 days post-divorce to make different arrangements for insurance coverage -- it's not limited to the Open Enrollment period.
In addition, depending on what your post-divorce income may be, you might qualify for the subsidy. A household of ONE may qualify for the subsidy if your total income is between $11,670 and $46,680 per year. That's a pretty big spread.
Other than that, most everything except meds is covered. And I think once you're a senior and collecting CPP (our national pension plan) many of your meds are free as well. Check-ups, tests, flu-shots (got mine yesterday), visits to specialists, surgery, hospital stays, weekend walk-in clinic care, emerg visits. They de-listed eye exams many years ago, which I think is ridiculous, but lower income can get covered I think. And elective counseling services (like what many of us utilize going through divorce) is not covered, although many private employers have coverage for this.
I thought Obamacare would be something like what we have, but I guess it's a watered down version from what was originally intended?! Gosh, that adds another angle to working