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First of all I have to say I have been waiting for one of those grand jestures from my wife to let me know she is really over the OW and wants to be with me. I requested for her to give me the...

I am shifting my concerns for now for my son, I don't know if I told you about him he is 22 years old and last month had a stroke and brain aneurism, he has a golf ball sized growth on the left side...

Over the last two weeks I have been to different counseling sessions with and without my wife, telling the counselors what happened with my wife cheating on me with different women in different...

If you don't trust anyone how can you ever find happiness? We all need to be forgiving to a point and in that case forgiving to ourselves. We can all get all wound up in a tiny ball and not let...

I know things are so fresh and new (the hurt/hate) of what happened. I told my wife it was if I could feel the wind blowing through all of me it hurt and still to a point hurts now. She also just...

Love this song by bill withersSometimes in our lives we all have painWe all have sorrowBut if we are wiseWe know that there's always tomorrowLean on me, when you're not strongAnd I'll be your...

went to my first counseling session last night and talked for a while. I told her of my and my wife’s relationship. After I talked she made a statement that I kind of had on my mind already; that...

Wow what a difference a little honesty makes, I have felt better and so does she. She still has issues to go over by her self but I see a marked difference in her moods and body language. Maybe by me...

Last night was a good night for me. I am quite sure it was awful for my wife. For the first time since her affair we actually sat down and looked into each others eyes and talked about what happened...

I don't know how to handle the feelings I am having today. It just isn't the same anymore I have tried unsucessfuly to hide the pain and disgust for what happened and she is seeing it more in my...

I have been on a rollercoaster form hell with my wife, I just seem to accept it when I go down again, yesterday was one of those days. I hit rock bottom about 3pm and slowly came back, went out for a...

 Having a bad two months, I am really trying to find out if the bp caused the affair and her feelings for the girl or if it is a crutch to get her out of the fire. I want to believe that she...

Well another day and I seem to be doing the two step with my wife. I seem to be feeling better with what happened and then I slide back to the place I started from. I really want to move forward but...

Hello, My wife and I are trying to work on keeping our marrage together. She is bipolar and I am trying to figure out how we are going to last as a couple..a married couple not a couple of nuts. She...