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Just an update and a "vent' I guess for you all. I actually love posting, dont do it much, but love keeping in contact with you. Every one of you has something so powerful to say, and it always makes me feel better. Here goes...
You all know, (or maybe you dont) that I got a letter from the collection agency who holds the mortgage last week. They want $19,500.00 by the 17th of this month or they are going to start foreclosure again. I do not live in that house, and am not that worried about his mistakes. (yes, my name is on it, and there are circumstances that I dont want to get into right now that make me not worried.)
I just found out today that he hasnt paid my daughters tuition and is late on my sons daycare, too.
Again, I am not worried. WHY? Well, it just goes to prove I was right about him. It just justifies my reasons for leaving him. It makes me feel better that he is doing exactly what I said he has done for the past 10 years.
Also, it makes me step up to the plate and take over. He is getting away with it, again, but I have to do what I have to to take care of my kids. I am applying for tuition assistance for my daughter, and have an appointment with social services for my sons daycare to help pay his daycare costs.
It makes me feel good knowing I am taking care of things when I knew he couldnt/wouldnt. It may be wrong, but I guess I feel like saying, "I WAS RIGHT!!!!" And as wrong as that may be, it makes me feel good!!!
Thanks all. I love you all and hope you are having a great day! It does get better!!!!
You all know, (or maybe you dont) that I got a letter from the collection agency who holds the mortgage last week. They want $19,500.00 by the 17th of this month or they are going to start foreclosure again. I do not live in that house, and am not that worried about his mistakes. (yes, my name is on it, and there are circumstances that I dont want to get into right now that make me not worried.)
I just found out today that he hasnt paid my daughters tuition and is late on my sons daycare, too.
Again, I am not worried. WHY? Well, it just goes to prove I was right about him. It just justifies my reasons for leaving him. It makes me feel better that he is doing exactly what I said he has done for the past 10 years.
Also, it makes me step up to the plate and take over. He is getting away with it, again, but I have to do what I have to to take care of my kids. I am applying for tuition assistance for my daughter, and have an appointment with social services for my sons daycare to help pay his daycare costs.
It makes me feel good knowing I am taking care of things when I knew he couldnt/wouldnt. It may be wrong, but I guess I feel like saying, "I WAS RIGHT!!!!" And as wrong as that may be, it makes me feel good!!!
Thanks all. I love you all and hope you are having a great day! It does get better!!!!
yes, we all have to pick ourselves up and survive.
we have to find that inner strength and take care of ourselves and our children and our obligations.
so glad to hear that you are finding solutions...and that you listen to that little voice and know you made the right decision.
(((((((((HUGS)))))))) be well
Also we are SO lucky that there is help available. So glass is half full today!