SearchingAndWaiting

Tired of the loneliness.

I Don’t Fit InOthers have girlfriends or boyfriends.I’ve never had a girlfriend.Others date.I look to be friends with girls. I hope that a friendship will evolve into romance.Others think it’s...

I'm so sad.And torn. I've given up. Don't anybody think I'm a "saint," because I'm not. Up until I was almost 30, I held out. Wouldn't think of doing something sexual (beyond making out) with a...

Wish I could feel greater emotional comfort. More security in expressing my true feelings... wishes, fears, hopes.....Where are people who listen truly non-judgementally and with such caring and...

Can anyone give me some words of encouragement as I wait to find the girl/relationship/experiences/sexual experience(s) I am searching for?... It is so difficult to wait. 

I don't know what it's like to have a girlfriend. What's it like to sit across from someone in a restaurant— someone you think is cute, and who thinks you're cute— as something you're used to...

One thing I really want is for someone to tell me that I'm "valid." But I know, in the end, that that can only come from myself. And therein, from God (according to what I believe).

Here, at this point, are qualities I'm looking for in a girl: Someone who wishes no harm to any other person.Someone who is grounded in a devotion to God (but who lives "secularly" on a day-to-day...

Feeling so down today. Feeling so alone in life. Like no one can appreciate how I feel and what I'm going through. If it's not going to be marriage... if I have to sacrifice that... then at least I...

This problem keeps coming up again and again. I don't know how to solve it once and for all.I met a girl recently who I thought was really cute. She added me as a "friend" on a social-networking...

Kissing-- making out-- signifies to me that you're in a relationship with someone. That you're "officially" romantic partners.It has meaning for me. Not just in the sens of the FEELINGS it brings up....

Okay. I just spoke to a friend of mine on the phone.She reassured me that I'm, quote, "fabulous" and also very cute. And that a girl would be crazy not to be interested in me. It kind of makes me...

I believe I'm missing something very powerful in life by not having sex.I really wish I had that something. I wish a girl would look at me with the kind of look that conveys sexual desire. I've...

My heart aches to love.I have a need to care. To be cared for.To share. To be received. Accepted.Reassured. I need gentleness. I want desperately to let go.And find, again, what is most...