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  New Friend

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Posted: 04/17/2020

  destinedforhappiness became friends with frankieee.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 04/17/2020

  destinedforhappiness became friends with frankieee.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  How to move on without closure?

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Last Reply: roughgoofit 04/17/2020

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  So, update. I still feel like my life sucks now. BUT, today is the first day that I do not have any harmful thoughts.I am returning to my wife and I's home tomorrow to pick up my things, and truly leave her out of my life.I am becoming more okay with us divorcing, however its still hard not having the closure that I need...To be honest, I know i will probably never get it. She is the type to die on her hill. Regardless. Just to protect herself for the guilt of her doings. How can I cope and...

• Loneliness
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Posted: 04/14/2020

  destinedforhappiness commented on the discussion just the odd one out...

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  Journal Comment

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  Posted: 04/14/2020

  destinedforhappiness commented on destinedforhappiness's journal A New Start...

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  Journal Comment

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  Posted: 04/13/2020

  destinedforhappiness commented on destinedforhappiness's journal A New Start...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Truly broken.... unsure of everything.

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Last Reply: catch_the_music 04/18/2020

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  So this is my second profile..My wife and I a getting a divorced. I have always had suspicion of her cheating. Last night it came to truth. But what breaks me the most is that for so long she has manipulated me to believing that I was the problem. That I was being too insecure, clingy and delusional.. It was with the very person I suspected. And even when I had proof and confronted her, she still denied. It got violent. I lost controll and I put my hands on her. Something I know was wrong, and...

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Posted: 04/13/2020

  destinedforhappiness joined the group Breakups & Divorce.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 04/12/2020

  destinedforhappiness became friends with finallyawakenow.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 04/12/2020

  destinedforhappiness became friends with SunCloudJD.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 04/12/2020

  destinedforhappiness became friends with AdelynRene.

• Loneliness
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 04/12/2020

  destinedforhappiness commented on the discussion just the odd one out...

• Healthy Relationships
  

  sorta new.

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Last Reply: urbangardener 04/12/2020

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  Just joined. Posted my first journal. Would love to hear from others, and make friends. please take the time to read it and respond.I figured everything that i would say is in my first journal lol. So why not just ask for others to befriend? THANKS!

• Loneliness
  

  just the odd one out..

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Last Reply: MadHatterTea 05/01/2020

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  I have always been someone who was codependant. Whether it be on family, or friends. It was always my mission to keep everyone around me happy. Even if it costs my own happiness. Nearly 30, I feel like I have lost my own identity by being someone everyone depended on. Now I feel so alone. I feel so lost. Im not sure what to do, and when I feel like I have figured out a solution, I bring myself back to depending on someone else. Looking for some sort of validation in life from others. I dont...

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  A New Start...

  Posted by: destinedforhappiness

  Posted: 04/11/2020

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  So, I have decided to start a new profile. My spouse had went through my computer and read my last profile. Thats something I kind of want to steer away from. It no longer became my happy place. As of right now I am currently married to a woman who basically doesn't want to be married any more. She had admitted the only reason she is still with me is due to the "committment" not out of love. We are still together now. Not too sure if things have gotten better or even progressed since, but I...