shantellew
Status: I have hope. I think the worst of it is over....
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- Hi,I'm newly married. Unfortunately he is an addict. He got cleaned up for awhile and that when I married him. He has fallen backwards completely. To my horror and shock he started shooting up pain meds and got mad at me for refusing to help him do...
- Anyone want to give me advice on a do it yourself cheap divorce. We have no children, no joint property except a banking account that he didn't even realize he was on, and one bankruptcy that I'm about to file next week. I need cheap and do it...
- Well, once again I had to do the hard thing.... I asked my stbx for lunch yesterday and just said it right out. I will always love you, but I no longer want to follow your path, and I have to do what is right for my life. I won't be able to give you...
- I got to laughing (sarcastically to myself) that the only reason I feel okay giving advice sometimes and feel okay to post is because I've made SO many mistakes and did things I regret so many times, all I have to do is say,,, just do the opposite...
- I got to laughing (sarcastically to myself) that the only reason I feel okay giving advice sometimes and feel okay to post is because I've made SO many mistakes and did things I regret so many times, all I have to do is say,,, just do the opposite...
- One of the hardest parts to me of this separation has been all the thinking and to be brutally honest with myself and come to terms with my own faults and my own issues that led to the break up. Its difficult to not be to hard on yourself while at...
- Ok, you guys are all so good at advice and have opinions I respect...Do you think its ever possible to reconcille a broken marriage? The problems are still basically there, but maybe I"ve lowered my expectations or maybe just lonely and can't let...
- Sooooo I called the suicide hotline last night. What a joke. They had nothing to say except ask if her supervisor could call me back sometime. She sounded so bored and smacked her gum the whole time. USELESS.
- I keep telling myself I DO have things to be happy about. I just moved into a little apartment that I love that is close to downtown and close to a lake that I can jog around. I know its not enough to pull yourself out a funk all the time, but what...
- At first I thought it was possible. But I noticed that everytime I hang out with my stbx, I fall into a huge depression and can barely function. He said he still "doesn't have those feelings" for me, but maybe in time a couple years maybe? He can't...
- I learned if I'm ever in another relationship, my husband will not "be my everything" I will make friends and have outside interests and goals. I will maintain my individuality. Oh, I also will not put up with crap for as long as I did.What about...
- I miss my friend. I reach for my phone a million times a day to text or call just to say "guess what just happened" or whatever. Its so hard not having anyone to share things with. Whats your one biggest thing you miss?
- Since the separation, I've had the overwhelming urge to dye my hair red or pink, get a huge tattoo, pierce something or basically do something drastic. Anyone else do this? Did you follow through, do you regret it? Or was it empowering?
- Of course all stories are long and you only see one spectrum of a relationship in these posts. Long story short. I was date raped while out on a girls night out new years night 2004. I got super depressed. Doctor put me on anti depressents for the...
- How do you make your photo your profile pic? Its not easy like facebook!