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What do you miss the most?

shantellew
shantellew
I miss my friend. I reach for my phone a million times a day to text or call just to say "guess what just happened" or whatever. Its so hard not having anyone to share things with.

Whats your one biggest thing you miss?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I miss my house, my friends, my old life and routine. Not him.
whiskeytangofoxtrot
whiskeytangofoxtrot
I miss my dog!

Im serious, I really really miss my dog. :(

Im such a country song. LOL
deleted_user
deleted_user
We had a great plan, a great dream. I miss my partner who shared that dream and would have built it with me.

Now, sadly, our dreams are coming true - but, separately.
Jarliew
Jarliew
I miss my best friend, the daily conversations, the dreams she sole, the ability to talk / see each other.
blah84
blah84
when it comes to my best friend i miss my the closenesss, talking and sharing and laughing and diners. its been so long and i think it will be a while til we gte it again.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yesterday, I was really cold at work... I thought about calling him and meeting for lunch, and "hey bring a hug and a sweater..." Oh yeah... there is no more us, just me. :( I miss my friend, someone to share with, talk to.... the connectedness. :(
deleted_user
deleted_user
I miss the friendship that we once shared. I at one time,could talk about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to him.He was my everything.
But theres a positive to this..I am groing closer to Jesus..he is now my constant companion...ALWAYS there,NEVER forsakes me.I talk to Jesus alot.:-)
Rachelle7547
Rachelle7547
I miss my friend.....
deleted_user
deleted_user
right now I don't miss a thing

when I have moments of missing, it's him I miss, not the abusive things he said or did, not the lying, the cons, the manipulation, the sadism, neglect or rage...just him.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I miss my friend as well. But I know that she has moved on and I need to do the same. I can't sit and dwell on thing's that could have been. I'm not sure she even thinks about the times, places, or things we did together. But I do at times. Thing is we have no contact. Though it's hard, I am respecting her wishes.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I miss the woman I fell in love with, not the one she is now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Amen to that, JonnyCha

or, at least the women we thought we knew.
Rman
Rman
I remember when our eyes would just meet and we both would just smile. That's how I knew she loved me..."loved" being the key word...not "loves."
Rman
Rman
Oh, and the one time she came up behind me, wrapped the vacuum cleaner cord around my throat and pulled...I miss those times so much...
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL @ Rman.

I miss the little signs of affection he used to give me. Our daily ritual of giving each other a kiss when we woke up, a kiss before we go to work, a kiss when one of us returns home. To me, those always meant that I was in his thoughts and heart.