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• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 07/14/2017

  prplcarn commented on the discussion She says it's broken. I feel lost..

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 07/12/2017

  prplcarn commented on the discussion He contacted me....

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 07/09/2017

  prplcarn commented on the discussion Been living with an alcoholic spouse.

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  a new day is here

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 07/09/2017

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  Today, after discovering 10 years too late, that the relationship is a lie even after no drinking.  I decided to take myself out of it. So i told him. This is not anything grand.  It will be a day by day thing to continue to grow and learn. Day to day process to become strong and deal the fallout of a failed marriage.  But i am strong with God.  I believe he didn't bring me to it and then fail me.  He will never fail me and he will get me through it.  Don't know what that will look like...

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 07/08/2017

  prplcarn became friends with mirandac.

• Codependency
  

  I am starting to see the fog lifting

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  Last Reply: VCM1992 07/07/2017

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  I'm mostly new to this site.  Been doing some reading and now going to CODA.  I'm married for 6 years, 10 years total relationship.  I love my husband. He has broken everyone of my conditions that I set at the beginning.  No lieing, cheating, physical abuse.  We have been working on gaining custody of his daughter for 10 years. I also have daughters of my own.  The relationship was great in the beginning, we both worked toward our common goals, building our future and our family.  Got...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 07/07/2017

  prplcarn joined the group Codependency.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 07/07/2017

  prplcarn commented on the discussion Feeling so betrayed. Am I overreacting?.

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  Journal Comment

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 06/30/2017

  prplcarn commented on sjs777's journal How to Get Closure After a Split

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 06/29/2017

  prplcarn became friends with sjs777.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Been living with an alcoholic spouse

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  Last Reply: prplcarn 07/09/2017

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  I've been with this man for 10 years.  Alcohol became a problem after about 6 years in to the relationship.  Now he's in a rehab program for the 3rd time.  This time he has stayed in it and even made it to IOP.  I've been through Alonon and am now learning about the effects of co-dependency.  I think i'm a strong person, but he can manipulate me in a second with seeing him how he used to be and false promises.  We have separated multiple times to the choices made and situations arising...

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 06/29/2017

  prplcarn joined the group Breakups & Divorce.

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  New Friend

  Posted by: prplcarn

  Posted: 06/29/2017

  prplcarn became friends with TeamDS.