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  Some good news....

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  Last Reply: Momof3indiapers 09/08/2017

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  My husbands lawyer informed me today that the prosecuting DA dropped a charge and has offered him 16 months. This is very good news. We had anticipated at minimum 2 years. A part of me feels vindicated because his so called friends had assumed he would go to prison for years and horrible things would happen to him. They accused him of promoting child abuse (which I do understand by watching you are in a sense promoting it). Their behavior was so accusatory. And now that he has been offered the...

• Families of SOs
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/15/2017

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/14/2017

  Candice2244 commented on the discussion Any ideas where we could get help?.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/14/2017

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  Registry

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  Last Reply: Tavisyh 08/21/2017

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  Is sex offender registry for life? We are located in California. I've read posts about husband's filing a petition to be removed. Is this possible? 

• Families of SOs
  

  Registry

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  Last Reply: Sweets 09/06/2017

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  Is registry for life? We are in California. I've read different stories and I see people writing that their husbands petitioned to get their names removed. Is that possible? 

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 08/14/2017

  Candice2244 joined the group Sex Offenders Wife.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/13/2017

  Candice2244 commented on the discussion Telling his family.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/13/2017

  Candice2244 commented on the discussion Arraignment.

• Families of SOs
  

  Telling his family

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  Last Reply: Fromtheashes 08/20/2017

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  My husband never told his mother or father what was going before he was arrested. Now he wants me to tell them. We've been separated for 3 months. They all asked questions but we were very vague. Now he's in jail and I have to tell his mom and dad why. I don't know how they'll react. I am a little afraid. 

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  Arraignment

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  Last Reply: Fromtheashes 08/20/2017

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  My husband was arrested and arraigned today. Bail was set at $200,000 we can't afford that. We don't own our home so we can't use that. I am so afraid for him. Now that his charges are public knowledge a few of his friends found out. Most are supportive (even towards me and my struggles) a few are not. I feel like I am put on trial and being asked questions I am not comfortable (nor should I even be asked) answering. These people forget that I am not the offender. They are labeling me along...

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 07/28/2017

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  ashamed

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  Last Reply: Alwayshavefaith 07/28/2017

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  Today there was a news story about a cop who was caught with CO. Instantly, the people around me were saying horrible things about him. I was quiet just listening to all the terrible things they felt this person should be forced to suffer. This scared the shit out of me. This could be my husband. I live in fear of what people will say when they/if they find out what he did. A few months ago I might've been right there saying terrible things too. Now I know not every RSO is a child molester. Now...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 07/25/2017

  Candice2244 commented on the discussion Needing to feel loved....

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  First encounter

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  Posted: 07/25/2017

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  We did it. We survived our first encounter post separation. We attended a memorial (how could we not be civil?). I asked him why he wanted to go. He has always been selfish by nature. He didn't want to go to his brother-in-laws funeral because he said he was a bad guy. So why attend the memorial of someone you've never even met? He tells me he's trying to be a better person. He's trying to think of others first. Well that's great but I'm still not coming back. He claims he's changed. How can...