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  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 08/09/2017

  tryingtocope commented on the discussion moving on.

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  moving on

  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Last Reply: forwardmotion 08/10/2017

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  So I tried to save my marriage after I found out about my husband's affair. I was willing to take him back and work at it.  Then I find out that he is still seeing her. He had the nerve to take my children camping with her.I decided I was done trying. It was time to move on. Well I was out one night and met someone. He is the complete opposite of my husband. And he is going through the same thing. His wife cheated. He has now been seperated for about a year. We have been out a few times and...

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  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 07/21/2017

  tryingtocope commented on the discussion realization.

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  realization

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  Last Reply: StormPetrel 07/21/2017

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  Tonight my husband informed me that he is still seeing the woman he had an affair with. He has even brought her around my children already. We have not even been seperated a month. Well I realized that I am completely done with him. And I deserve better.

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  life sucks

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  Last Reply: Sela415 07/20/2017

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  So my husband and I have been seperated about a month. He is enjoying the single life. And I have been sitting around. When I have our kids it's just me. Our daughter has not been to see me in over 2 weeks. When my husband has the kids I end up going to his place to watch them daily. One night after I left his place the woman he cheated with came over and they took my kids out to dinner and back to her place to play with her kids. I was so mad when my husband told me. I sent the woman a message...

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  little to no hope

  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Last Reply: roseofmyheart85 07/26/2017

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  So a couple months ago I found out my husband was having an affair with a woman he works with. I tried to move past it. And the actual cheating I can, its that he works with her everyday that I could not move past. I left about a month after I found out. I thought if I showed him that I would leave if he didn't start respecting me and my feelings that he would realize how much he loves me and didn't want to loose me. Well I was wrong! He does not want me back. Says we have to many issues for so...

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 07/08/2017

  tryingtocope joined the group Breakups & Divorce.

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  stunned

  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 07/08/2017

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  So since my last entry. My husband stopped calling me and texting me. Says he has nothing to say to me. This morning I get a message from him says he needs time to himself to figure things out. Ok fine. But he also saus that he has plans today and it is none of my business who he is with because he wants to start fresh without me keeping tabs on him. I don't want to loose him all together. I love him so much and just want to go home. The longer we are apart the more I realize that I really do...

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  not sure

  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 07/06/2017

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  Well we are at the 2 week mark of our separation. My husband has calls me daily. And we text numerous times throughout the day/night. We have actually slept together twice since the split. But my husband say he doesn't want to be together. Yesturday was my birthday and it was the first one in 19 years that he was not here for. That kind of hit me hard. My in laws did not even send me a text or Facebook message to tell me happy birthday. 

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  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 07/03/2017

  tryingtocope commented on the discussion peer pressure.

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  Posted: 06/29/2017

  tryingtocope commented on the discussion peer pressure.

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  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 06/28/2017

  tryingtocope commented on the discussion peer pressure.

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  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 06/28/2017

  tryingtocope commented on the discussion I have cheated and lied.

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  peer pressure

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  Last Reply: heartache5 08/04/2017

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  So after my husband cheated I was able to forgive him. I joined this group to have people to talk with. I felt like I spent a lot of time defending our relationship.  Anyway one thing that I could not move past is the fact that my husband sees this woman every day at work. I finally had enough and left. It has been almost a week now and I regret leaveing. I want to go home. My kids hate me. My husband refuses to let me come back. And he thinks that it is all because of this group that I felt I...

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  life sucks

  Posted by: tryingtocope

  Posted: 06/27/2017

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  Well its been 5 days since I left my husband. I am miserable!  I went to get some of my things from the house yesturday. We talked but I don't know if we can move passed this. Granted it is still early, but he says no way. To top things off I broke my foot while I was moving. I am completely at a loss. I don't know what to do.