Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
So my husband and I have been seperated about a month. He is enjoying the single life. And I have been sitting around. When I have our kids it's just me. Our daughter has not been to see me in over 2 weeks. When my husband has the kids I end up going to his place to watch them daily. One night after I left his place the woman he cheated with came over and they took my kids out to dinner and back to her place to play with her kids. I was so mad when my husband told me. I sent the woman a message saying I did not want her near my children. And my kids lied to me about spending time with her because they didn't want to hurt my feelings. I called my husband tonight asking if me and the kids could come over friday because I have a funeral to go to and it's by his place. He tells me thats fine but he won't be around. I asked what he was doing and he says "whatever I want with whoever I want. It is not you business anymore." I feel like it is still my business because we have only been seperated a month. I know I should move on but I want to get back together. He says he is happier without me and there no chance that we are getting back together. It hurts!
Hugs to you. We know your pain well. How can it be that we married this person who has/is treating us so poorly? It's difficult to process the path our lives take us on. We cannot believe that one day we're living the life we thought we would live and then the next day/week/month, our life is completely different. We wouldn't dream of betraying an acquaintance the way the person who was supposed to love us the most, who was supposed to protect us, is now treating us. My conscience wouldn't allow me to hurt anyone the way my ex hurt me and our family.
Your husband is cruel. These are your children and he shouldn't be bringing them around another woman for a long time. Much less the woman he was cheating with.
Why has your daughter not been over to see you in a few weeks? Have you filed for divorce?
I'm so sorry you have to go to a funeral. You're in a fragile state right now, and I know attending a funeral will add to your sad emotions.
We're here when you need to talk. Hang in there, once clarity arrives you will no longer want to get back together with your husband. Right now you're wanting "your normal" back and we all go through that.