NeoSoul

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• Polyamory
  

  Looking for feedback from other poly people

  Posted by: NeoSoul

  Posted: 04/02/2024

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  Hi all, just hoping to get some feedback, or consolation, or criticism, just putting words to this experience for the first time. I am a poly person in a long-term relationship with a mono person. I let him know early on that I have these thoughts and he set the boundary that he is not okay with any polyamory in the relationship. I chose to move forward with the relationship because when I thought through all the logistics of a poly/mono combination, I decided it would be healthier for me to...

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: NeoSoul

  Posted: 04/02/2024

  NeoSoul joined the group Polyamory.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  NeoSoul commented on the discussion Brokenhearted - Married 15 years with 4 children..

• Liars Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  NeoSoul commented on the discussion New to the Support Group.

• Liars Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  NeoSoul commented on the discussion damned if you do, damned if you don't.

• Liars Anonymous
  

  damned if you do, damned if you don't

  Posted by: NeoSoul

  Last Reply: gwilly 10/24/2018

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  TW: talk of abuse and coercion, not in great detail, but mentioned.“We are condemned for lying, but we are condemned even more for telling the truth.”This quote rings very true for me as I work through how to be the person I want to be. My truth was often rejected, so lying felt so much safer. When I was sexually harassed, I was told I put myself in the position. When I was bullied, I was told it was my job to be more likeable. When I was struggling with eating, I was told that I was being...

• Liars Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  NeoSoul commented on the discussion My introduction.

• Liars Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  NeoSoul commented on the discussion I'm done.

• Liars Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/15/2018

  NeoSoul commented on the discussion introductions.

• Liars Anonymous
  

  introductions

  Posted by: NeoSoul

  Last Reply: Rock.bottom 10/18/2018

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  Admitted that I am powerless over lying, that my life had become unmanageable.I lie to fit in. I lie because I don’t feel my truth is good enough. I lie because I feel that it would make me a more holy person. I lie because I want to be someone I’m not. I lie because I feel like it makes me a better Christian. I lie because my truth was never good enough in childhood, I was always expected to put others’ wants and needs above my own and the only way to do that for me was to be dishonest...

• Liars Anonymous
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: NeoSoul

  Posted: 10/15/2018

  NeoSoul commented on the discussion Hi - I am a liar and I need help.

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 10/15/2018

  NeoSoul joined the group Liars Anonymous.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  I've made mistakes

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  Last Reply: cbgrace1980 07/10/2018

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  I am looking at myself in the mirror and I don't recognize myself anymore. I've become the type of person who isn't open with her family or with anyone fully because I can't begin to explian the chaos that I've made my life into. I wish we didn't encourage 19 year old girls to get married as quickly as possible without giving them the information about how their brains change and develop. I feel like I've been so badly manipulated by people at church and other places telling me that if I just...

• Cheaters ONLY!
  

  breaking out of limbo

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  Last Reply: finallyawakenow 07/10/2018

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  Hey, have any of you read Women's Infidelity by Michelle Langley? I'm going through the limbo process and trying to find support from others going through it. 

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 07/09/2018

  NeoSoul joined the group Cheaters ONLY!.