Liars Anonymous Community Group

A support group to provide those with a compulsive addiction to lie a place to share hope, strength and courage with others like them; solve our common problem and help others with a compulsion to lie. We aren't alone!

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Olivia_Marison 10/07/2018

Hi, I’m Kate and I’m a liar. I’m 17 years old.

I have very bad time. I’m disappointed from myself and I hate myself for every single lye. I feel like it will never end. I have very low self-confidence and I stuffer from distress. I’m feeling like if I’m not gonna be lieing people wouldn’t like me. I lost to many friends because of this problem. I’m shamed from myself.

When I found this website, I was crying. In the Czech Republic where I’m from people don’t know about this ill and we don’t make any meetings. You help me just because you are. Worse thing is to be alone.

I can’t stop with lieing more then one year and I haven’t started to treatment as well. This month I should go to psychologist but I’m scared it’s not gonna help.

I don’t wanna be alone and I’m not sure if one they I can have a relationship. The relationship is about trust and who can trust layer?

How people behave to you now when they know about it? Is here any teenager? Is here anybody who has relationship even he is layer? What helps you don’t be lying? Is here somebody from Czech Republic or Slovakia?

Thank you so much you read this text and I wish you many luck in your faith.

Kate

gwilly 10/10/2018

Kate, it is a wonderful thing that you are starting to deal with this problem at 17 years old. Many of us here didn't start working on it till much later, myself I was in my forties, having done it for so long it was very difficult to change my habits you're very young and you have a strong desire to stop and that is a very good thing read through comments on this website. There are a lot of things that people have put out here that help them or maybe some of those things will help you also.

Olivia_Marison 10/20/2018

Thank you gwilly. I appreciate it.

NeoSoul 10/22/2018

thank you for your honesty. in my experience therapy has helped as long as you can be honest with your therapist. i am a therapist and i can say, we've heard it all really, so there's no reason to be ashamed. I know emotions don't work that way though. :) great job getting help for it now.

Olivia_Marison 10/28/2018

I'm glad for your answers, NeoSoul

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