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- Today is my wedding anniversary. This is the 4th one since my wife died. It has always been a day of being sad and missing my wife. While there will always be sadness from losing her, I find myself really healing in about the last 6 months. So,...
- I was very lonely when I was younger. Women were never interested in me and I longed to have someone to love. I was 38 when I met my wife. We had 18 years together until her death 3 1/2 years ago. We went through very tough times (her abusive...
- For those of you who believe in God and heaven, I'd like to share quotes from 2 songs. They make me think of my wife. They give me comfort and they make me cry. Thought they might offer some of you comfort as well. The first one is from All My Tears...
- When my wife died 3 years ago, I found that the joy I had gotten from my hobbies and interests was severely diminished. Nothing was fun anymore. I didn't see how I would ever be able to enjoy anything again. 3 years before my wife's death we moved...
- My wife died 3 years ago today. When I was younger I was a music nerd, who was shy and awkward with girls. (a few months shy of 60, I'm not sure any of that has changed). Women were never intersted and I hoped someone would look past the outside and...
- As I approach my 3rd year without my wife in February and my 60th birthday in June, I have been doing some soul searching. I've known happy couples in my life, but I've also known people who have been in bad relationships or never had a...
- This will be my third Christmas without my wife. My wife loved Christmas. When we lived in New York, we would spend Christmas eve with my family and then drive to New Jersey to spend Christmas day with her family. She would always go overboard with...
- February will be 3 years since my wife's death. Like many of us, I wonder if the pain ever really goes away. This morning I was watching a tribute concert to John Lennon. During the song Woman (which he wrote for Yoko Ono), the camera showed Yoko in...
- 2 1/2 years after losing my wife, I'm finding the secret widowed people hide from friends and family. The secret is that it gets worse with time, not better. The deep grief I felt at the beginning doesn't happen quite as often anymore, but it...
- My wife was 60 when she died two and a half years ago. Today would have been her sixty third birthday. All I want to say is I love her with all of my heart, I miss her every day and my life will never be the same without her.
- My wife gave me a ring with the inscription two souls one heart. Now, 2 years after her death, it is just me and I really feel all alone in this world without her. I feel that way when I'm by myself or with people. With my joy and desire severly...
- Ok, a confession. Two years after losing my wife and I have been watching a lot of romance movies lately. I won't date again. The love never ended, so I feel like I'm still married to her. The thing is, I really miss being in love. So these movies...
- I know all the ways I'm supposed to deal with the loss of my wife. Find new friends, new hobbies, a new romance. Keep busy and don't spend too much time alone. Strive to get over the grief. However, I find myself on a different path. Truth is, I...
- Time heals all wounds. Every one of us who has lost the love of our life has heard this. I say bullshit! My wife is gone 2 years now and this does not heal. Every day is just another day without her and it really sucks. How am I supposed to ever be...
- Time heals all wounds. Every one of us who has lost the love of our life has heard this. I say bullshit! My wife is gone 2 years now and this does not heal. Every day is just another day without her and it really sucks. How am I supposed to ever be...