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  Posted by: lostmyheart

  Posted: 10/22/2017

  lostmyheart commented on the discussion I Am Broken.

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  Posted: 10/10/2017

  lostmyheart became friends with shelda.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/10/2017

  lostmyheart commented on the discussion Feelings.

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  Posted: 09/25/2017

  lostmyheart commented on the discussion How to post here..

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 08/05/2017

  lostmyheart commented on the discussion I lost my husband on June 3...still not real.

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  House

  Posted by: lostmyheart

  Last Reply: pahatfi 08/10/2017

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  We were married 42 years and he passed away of March 11th of this year.  I want to know if anyone else has experienced this and what they've done.  Being in the house we shared (we've only shared this home for 6 years), is difficult.  Being here makes me feel lonely.  Both of my kids don't like coming here because it reminds them too much of their dad.  I really like my house and I'm not sure moving is affordable for me.  Any suggestions?

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  Trying to Go On..

  Posted by: lostmyheart

  Last Reply: scottito 06/17/2017

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  I've been trying to go on but its so so hard and while I have family that is supportive, it just isn't helping that much.  Its been 3 months since R passed away and its not getting any better.  I've cried every day this week.  My R and and were into RVing and he wanted me to continue to do so.  I went to South Carolina with my daughter and grandchildren and was able to learn all that I needed to set it up.  Luckily I'm very good at driving it.  Planning on going back to NH (where we spent...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 04/29/2017

  lostmyheart commented on the discussion Time for a Roll Call?.

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  Anniversary Alone

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  Last Reply: FaithfulLee 05/04/2017

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  My husband passed in early March and I just spent the first wedding anniversary without him.  It would have been 43 years and it was really tough.  I know all these milestones will be hard but just living day to day is the hardest.  We moved to another state 6 years ago and I worked constantly so I don't have many connections except from my previous workplace.  I am really unsure where to even start with developing a new life.  It's so lonely at times; I try to keep busy but the nights are...

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  Recently widowed

  Posted by: lostmyheart

  Last Reply: emerald15 03/24/2017

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  This is the first time I've used that word to describe myself and it hurts.  I lost my husband of 42 years last weekend and I don't know what to do.  I've never been much for socializing and I don't have many friends.  He was my best friend and I'm just not sure how I'm going to get through this.  I have my meds that I can rely on for a while...and must rely on since stress put me in the hospital a few days ago. I only retired a year ago so we didn't have enough time to do our bucket...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 03/20/2017

  lostmyheart joined the group Widows & Widowers.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 03/20/2017

  lostmyheart became friends with TeamDS.