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• Codependency
  

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  Posted: 05/07/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion Funny but honest article on codependency.

• Friends til the end
  

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  Posted: 05/05/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion If You Were Forced To Spend.....

• Loneliness
  

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  Posted: 05/05/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion I hate myself.

• Loneliness
  

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  Posted: 05/05/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion I hate myself.

• Women who Love too Much
  

  I'm in a bad way....

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  Last Reply: penseuse 05/08/2017

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  I put my sweet dog down yesterday. I feel like a monster. She was so lovely, but her body was failing. I'm so sad thinking that maybe I did it too soon. And now every where I look and every sound I hear, I think  it's her. I'm so sad.He came with me. She was our dog, so when he learned that I was going to take her this week he offered to come. He was very aloof. Helped with her and cried, but he was aloof. And when he dropped me off at home afterward, he quickly left. I'm sitting in a sea of...

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  Posted: 05/02/2017

  TheProofer commented on penseuse's journal 5.2.17

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  Posted: 04/30/2017

  TheProofer commented on artgrrl's journal Starting New Self-Help Plan

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  Posted: 04/30/2017

  TheProofer commented on artgrrl's journal My Massage Therapist's Husband has had an affair on her....

• Women who Love too Much
  

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  Posted: 04/30/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion He's my Kryptonite.

• Women who Love too Much
  

  He's my Kryptonite

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  Last Reply: TheProofer 04/30/2017

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  Well I met him for lunch yesterday... I thought I was doing so good. Now here I am, constantly checking my phone for a message, allowing thoughts of him in the safe spaces in my head. Obsessing. Definitely a bump in my recovery process.Not really sure why he wanted to meet me. He shared some updates on his situation. Told me he loved me. Gave me a hug. Didn't put any big moves on me. Wants to be my friend. And, of course, I want what I've always wanted. Him. I want him to mean it when he says...

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  Posted: 04/29/2017

  TheProofer commented on penseuse's journal 4.29.17

• Women who Love too Much
  

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  Posted: 04/27/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion And then he texts me.....

• Women who Love too Much
  

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  Posted: 04/26/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion And then he texts me.....

• Women who Love too Much
  

  And then he texts me....

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  Last Reply: TheProofer 04/27/2017

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  This is our pattern. He loves me. He ghosts me. He comes back and promises to love me. He loves me. He ghosts me. He comes back and promises to love me. My friends hate him. My family hate him. Not because of who he is, but because of how he takes me down this wicked path. But I am a WWLTM. I go willingly. And I've been reading, and coping (and overeating to cope) since he ghosted me again at the end of February. And out of the blue, he texted me tonight. His is a complicated story. Mine is...

• Women who Love too Much
  

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  Posted: 04/25/2017

  TheProofer commented on the discussion Artile about Low Self-esteem.