Parents of estranged adult children Community Group

One or more of our adult children walked out of our lives and never looked back.

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  • Victoryrose44

    I've lost my Son and all hope

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    I raised my son as a single mother and I admit to a lot of problems while I was raising him. I was very unhappy as a result of damage that a Doctor had done to me. I regret the life and insecurities that my Son had to deal with growing up, but I've always loved him. I have not seen my son in 13 years. I have never seen my Grandchildren. I had some legal problems when he was growing up due to my...
  • BelievingMom2011

    It will get better

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    Hello - Our son was a great kid.  He never gave us any trouble.  We were very close, especially he and his Dad.  He went to college, graduated, got a great job and then he met a girl at his job.  That's when everything changed and he became someone that we (my husband, daughter and I) didn't know.  We were at odds about stupid things.  He wrote my husband and I a hateful letter . . . not...
  • CyndyH

    New here, unfortunately. Need your advice...

    Without any real warning or event, my 31-year old son has "stepped away" from our family. Says he has been an angry, frustrated person for the past 2 years and "turns out, it all stems from my parent's divorce" which was 20 years ago. He has been in a long-term, living-together relationship with his girlfriend of 8 years. He has a newer career in welding (2 years) and I helped him to buy his...
  • imissmyson

    just lost my son and feel like dying inside

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    I'm new here.  My son just cut me out of his life a few days ago and i feel as though I can just die.  I have no joy anymore, and am crying all day every day.  He wont' talk to me or see me and he wont come home.  This is a very complicated story but his biological father is behind it all and is telling him lies and is about to meet him for the first time in 19 years and so my son told me to...
  • Idblake13

    I miss my kid

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    My daughter cut me off of her life 6 months ago becuase of her boyfriend. I don't deserve this and I don't know how to get past it.  I feel empty.  She was my everything and I don't know what else to do.  I have tried to speak to her a million times but she blocked me out of everything.   I am so depressed and sad all the time.  I feel like I can't go on anymore, it hurts so much.  I want...
  • Taina0920

    My adult son resents me

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    We have been there thru thick & thin for our adult son. Lately, he has been making poor decisions and this  most recent time  we didn't bail him out.  Now he is very upset with my husband and I, and stated that he wants nothing to do with us.  
  • mustang1

    Gave her my all....and it was not enough

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    I think we did too much...gave too much... surrounded our worlds around them. I believe my daughter 34, just decided to have new parents, her in-laws, and just decided to cut me out. Her husband is uneducated, my daughter has a masters degree. I have a PhD. I think I intimidate him so he decided to just not like me and has criticized me from day 1. Once, we all played Scrabble and he was losing,...
  • Abbysdad

    Can a mother take a child??

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    I don't know where to start. I'll leave this simple. Does anyone know if it is legal for a mother to take a child out of state and drop all contact between the father and child? A little back story, we weren't married when the child was born but married two years after. I did sign the birth certificate. She left one day with the child when the child was three and I have not heard a word from her...
  • tesstee2

    Hello????

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    Anyone ever in this group?.....Where do i need to go to talk to someone about this issue?....wow......some support!!
  • bellahumble

    confused

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    I can't "do" anything here.  I can't read the end of stories, I can't respond.  I'm all logged in.  Any clues?  Cheers, Bella
  • iflounder

    Eleven Years Out . . .

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    My story is toooo long to give you the whole thing, but after I divorced my son's father (my son was 18) his anger was unbelievable.  He stopped all contact with me, anytime I DID find him and try to talk to him it was painfully ugly.   I became physically and mentally ill over this.    I know the pain you all are in, and I am so sorry.   No one should ever have to feel this.    He ignored...
  • seeingthebrightside

    Exhausting Day

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    I took a PTO day off work today to meet with my therapist, Josh Coleman who specializes in parent adult child estrangement. When I arrived early 35 miles from my home, I stopped at a coffee shop to pass the time until my 11am appointment. As I sat in the waiting room, I had every intention of not crying. I had dressed, put on my makeup, I had it down. What I wanted to say, how we were going to...
  • urbanmusicgal

    My Children Have Rejected Me - Why?

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    I raised my children as a single mom, and I was always there for them.  I had to divorce their father because he had taken up crawling into bed with our daughter, and refused to stop when I told him to. He was on his way to ruining her life, and setting her for a lifetime and trauma, and I had to stop him.  Because of the divorce, I knew and felt my children were at risk, and so I chose to put...
  • shelda

    Insane

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    Around 15 years ago my eldest daughter started to go out of her way to hurt me and to this day still lies about everything..she convinced her sister i was nuts...And from there it all started to spiral out of control..Eventually our youngest daughters decided to all move out together on the same day. To say its strained between us is an understatement. Their Father my husband was in a fairly bad...
  • lenalenochka

    Heartbroken

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    Hello,My name is Elena. I am a mother of 2 children. My son is 25 and my daughter is 21.Having terrible problem with my son. He always was a perfect child. Got great education, he is Doctor of Pharmacy. Always caring , loving, sincere. He was my best a achievement , my pride , my best friend.A little over a year ago he met a girl. They were dating for over six months and we finally met her. We...