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Those are the words that were said to me. I dont understand why he said them. All I know is I hurt so so deeply and my children are hurt as well. We have/had the perfect marriage. Rock strong is what we always said. I am so lost and hurt right now. We will be married 10 years on the 24th of June. I honestly thought that everything was great. He has said that he feel out of love with after two years of being together with me. Why all of the sudden is this coming out? He says he cares for me, loves me for me and for being the mother to our daughter. But hes not in love with me. All I know is I want him back. He is my Superman. He is a giver and tends to give to much of his time to others. He is a workaholic. Always finding small side jobs for the extra income. I feel he has forgotten his family and needs to find us again. He has moved out for the third time since mothers day. He has never gone to far from me. Im not a stalker so im not going by the house he is staying at. Im not calling him all the time. Today is the first day I have not texted him. He keeps telling me im pushing him away. HELP me please. I want my husband back.
galvatron, what do you mean by the statement: "9/11 was again forced by innocent Muslims." ?
Better write another post and continue to focus on the help for blondytou.
Has your people ever been threatened by Americans?
Have you ever been called a terrorist based on the way you dressed or your religious belief?
Ever wonder why the columbine boys shot up the school?
You see. You piss off the little guys and the little guys can't do much except stage 911 or a columbine. The little guys were all innocent until you piss them off.
you won't see it unless you're one of the little guys.
those things really shouldn't be talked about here in this unrelated thread.
and welcome to the house of pain honey.
I meant to reply to this last night but got sidetracked and I haven't had the time to read the whole thread now. sorry love.
Has anybody mentioned the "180" here yet? If not, check this out.
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Infidelity/forum/2591291-180
I think you need o do this on his arse. Do it now and do it as hard and as convincingly as you can.
Mickxx
We all wish you, blondytou, the best. Stay strong!
Phrase used exclusively by shallow self-absorbed individuals who actually have no concept of what it means to love or be loved. Their hearts are vacant and usually associate sex not with a deeply emotional or spiritual experience but rather purely a physical and transient act involving no emotion. Such individuals are limited in both intellect and in normal socialization skills. People who use this overused cliche usually suffer from a combination of schizotypal disorder and sociopathy. A catch-all phrase when the person doing the dumping knows there is no reason for the relationship to end, other than for purely selfish reasons of wanting to pursue sexual relations with other individuals outside of the current relationship.
thats not a universal truth
i still love my exhusband 14 yrs after our marriage ended, no less now than then
but i still am not in love with him anymore
and he isnt with me either
but we were for many years
if i met a woman who thought that way, i couldn't go deeper with her.
I will say this though, and I've said it before, I said my vows and meant them which may be why I still am in some sort of loving relationship with my exhusband, I come from parents who were together until my father died 14 years ago, and I gave my very best effort and positive feelings into marriage counselling along with my exhusband for over a year before we mutually decided to let the marriage go, and together we stayed committed to doing the very best for our son that we could.
To me, that seems like a while lot of knowing what love is, and what commitment is...even though the marriage we both wanted to work, didnt.
My exhusband knows how much I respect and appreciate him, I told him just yesterday what I tell him every Fathers Day, that I couldnt have chosen a better man to have a child with, or divorce. And he thinks I'm pretty special too.
I dont know what else to say, except sometimes good relationships, and commitments made with the very best intentions, come to a natural end, and there isnt anything we can do to change that. Sometimes all we can do is accept it.