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Those are the words that were said to me. I dont understand why he said them. All I know is I hurt so so deeply and my children are hurt as well. We have/had the perfect marriage. Rock strong is what we always said. I am so lost and hurt right now. We will be married 10 years on the 24th of June. I honestly thought that everything was great. He has said that he feel out of love with after two years of being together with me. Why all of the sudden is this coming out? He says he cares for me, loves me for me and for being the mother to our daughter. But hes not in love with me. All I know is I want him back. He is my Superman. He is a giver and tends to give to much of his time to others. He is a workaholic. Always finding small side jobs for the extra income. I feel he has forgotten his family and needs to find us again. He has moved out for the third time since mothers day. He has never gone to far from me. Im not a stalker so im not going by the house he is staying at. Im not calling him all the time. Today is the first day I have not texted him. He keeps telling me im pushing him away. HELP me please. I want my husband back.
Well said once again Jen1113. Thanks!
However, being married didn't mean being in love. Being married meant a life time commitment. To be there for each other.
But to divorce because you somehow got out of love? That's insane.
He must be white American from Ohio.
Exactly, could all the people who have said, I am not IN LOVE with you but I love you, pls go back and take bio 101. Why is it that they all forgot about the role hormones play in that first love feeling? There is scientific evidence on this topic. That's another reason that lame statement pisses me off. It IS a cop out, Galv is right, marriage was about committment. No one promised you sunshine, ponies, and rainbows and sexual urges every minute of your married life. Like I said, just finding something to pin their unhappiness on. Go fix yourself. I can't do it for you, nor can my genitals. Love you all.
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I went and stayed with a friend for eight months while he recovered from a car accident. I fell in love...He didn't. Right before Valentine's Day I got the, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." I packed up and came back to my little apartment and cried...I'm still crying. He, on the other hand immediately began to see someone he had known for years...
My husband said the same thing to me. Personally, I think it is a cop out. What I found out several months after I left him, was that he had already moved on and found someone. So no, he wasn't in love with me he just led me to believe that he wanted to make our marriage work. For financial reasons only.
I hope things work out for you. Just don't put more into it then he is. If he truely is not giving 100% - cut your losses and move on.
Just because you believe in God, doesn't mean that other people do.
My people for instance, do not believe in God. Though, my people do not divorce as easily as you people who believe in God.
Maybe, you should stop believing in God because God can't help you. Have you seen those exorcist movies? God doesn't help.
It was His choice to put you up North.