Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I am finding that the less I think about the "good" times and the more I think about the things that really annoyed me, pissed me off or the stupid things my stbx did, the better and stronger I feel.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
when we went out shopping at the malls and wally world, she'd change the baby right in front of God and everyone and sometimes leave the dirty diapers on the shelves.
she'd get a soft drink from a cooler when we went in shopping and then not pay for it when we left. i can't stand thieves.
she'd get to the personal needs section (paper towels, wet wipes, etc.) and clean the kids and leave the dirty items on the shelves or on the floor and walk off.
she'd blow her nose in public and just drop the used tissues on the floor and walk away.
she only put on clean clothes when she bathed. (read my earlier post for bathing frequency).
she'd leave cigarette buts in the cups and glasses on the coffee table for weeks. IN WATER. that smelled putrid.
she'd hide dirty clothes up under the beds so i couldn't find them when it was laundry time. that stunk.
when she did bathe herself and the kids, she'd stand on the floor to dry off and not on the floormats. this way when i walked into the bathroom i'd slip and fall almost everytime. then she'd laugh and say watch out for the water. what a bitch.
when he filed for divorce he actually put in the divorce papers that he knows he has a excessive drinking and gambling problem and has no intention in changing.
This was my favorite, My stbx told me if I wanted marriage counseling that I would have to go by myself.....
she had two pairs of underwear she'd wear all the time. washed them once a week. yuck!!!
she put the five year old in the same clothes for school twice a week without washing them.
we had a washer and dryer but the only things that got washed regularly were towels and my clothes for work. guess i needed clean clothes so i could go out to work everyday and bring home the bacon.
the five year old would have an accident in bed and she'd make her sleep in it without changing the sheets or putting down a towel between her and the scene of the crime.
she'd spill stuff on the floor and coffee table and leave it. just leave it. had to see if i was going to clean it up or if it just needed to stay there.
she would wait until i got all of the dishes done and then wanted to cook something. I JUST WASHED THE DAMNED DISHES!!!!!
she never would clean up her messes in the kitchen. that was my job. for the love of God, i was gone for 14 to 16 hours a day working and trying to pay bills. wtf???