Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I am finding that the less I think about the "good" times and the more I think about the things that really annoyed me, pissed me off or the stupid things my stbx did, the better and stronger I feel.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
So, maybe your entries to this post can help most if not all of the DSers through this difficult time.
I'll start (and I have a lot):
1. My stbx literally screwed my throw rugs to the floors (in kitchen, dining room, living room, and den) because he said they kept moving.
2. He put the upright vacuum on the seat cushion of the new couch (while it was running) and it sucked the material up around the roller which burned a permanent long mark in the fabric. He said he didn't know it would do that.....duh!
Your turn....I'll continue with more of mine later.
Baracaded his side of the bed with pillows. Looked somewhat like the continental divide.
Insisted on sleeping with the TV on all night, wonderful thing when he finally bought headphones.
Made HUGE Deals about buying ONLY electric Lawn equipment...even though it meant MY running cords past our pool to do the yardwork-He NEVER did yard work EVER. And when I bought gas, he threw a Fit.
Insisted that my fear of heights could be best conqured by learning to use the ladder when I painted our house. I was not given the scaffolds (that we use for business)...I only fell of the ladder once and was luck to land on grass :-)
K9Linda- ewwwwww gross!!! Why would anyone want to stuff a pillow with someone elses hair? That's just gross!!!!
Okay, my turn...
My ex would cook but didn't believe in cleaning... he would cook this extravagant meal and put all the stuff (pots, dishes, trash from the ingredients he used) in the sink or on the counter (flour would be everywhere) so that I could clean it up later. He said a chef should not have to clean up behind himself. Where was this theory when I cooked??? It used to piss me off to no end!!!!
2. He would take clean dishes, pots and pan from the drying rack and put them on the counter under or over the cabinet they were suppose to go in (not in the cabinet). They would sit there until I put them away.
This is the same man who won't let me keep the bottle of Joy soap next to the sink because he thought it looked too clutter. WTF?
*SHE would refuse to change the toilet garbage due to "gross" feminine hygene products. And would toss the wrapper from said products in bedroom floor or bathroom floor.
Beat that, ladies...