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Daily observations, rants, and grumblings.....

Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks

Just let it out, similar to a journal entry.   Will slowly let my story out here as some have suggested.  For today...



There isn't really a good reason for someone to just stop in the middle of the road to block traffic....if you're not comfortable driving, then don't.


Generally when someone says they haven't been planning something, I tend not to believe them.


As tough as it is to get out and do something....it usually helps because it gets your mind off of things.


Toughest part lately is before going to bed and then waking up because your mind is going 1000 miles an hour.

Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Yeah
So one screw up can be a major problem
confessionsofaqueen
confessionsofaqueen
Only if you allow that one screw to over power your momentum… technically, one screw up cannot outweigh 99% of your high and outstanding performance, unless you give it power to do so. I do see your point tho!! As a perfectionist myself, because I’m hard on myself, I can see how one mistake can ruin the course of perfect nature, but that’s when the spiritual realm is most powerful and purposeful to man as one overcomes the internal battle. Hence why prayer is inevitable to the righteous man. The power of faith works wonders and serves man good.
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Brain is heck of a mood killer

I see your point

You can't let it control you time and time again

Can only take new chances
confessionsofaqueen
confessionsofaqueen
I once heard from someone at face value say; the mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master and I know it’s been quoted by many before.

There’s got to be equilibrium in all things.

No the brain doesn’t have concept of common sense that comes from wisdom (human experience and knowledge), hence why staying presently engaged and aware is so important.

You’re right Life, one takes chances with virtuous confidence because we know it’s all for the higher good.

Hence why ‘The Golden Rule’ is applicable in all.
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Left shoulder

Right shoulder
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Based off the number of posts by people who seem to never come back, I wonder if the owner of this site posts things just for people to respond.

Helps to keep engagement up every so often. This place continues to die a slow death.
confessionsofaqueen
confessionsofaqueen
I notice when I come on I’m surprised if I get to see 7 people on, it’s usually 1 or 2 very seldomly 7 or more at a time.
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Same here

And mainly the same people posting.

Maybe they fixed their problem(s) and left.

E not alone seems to have more action.

The lack of engagement was a reason I didn't check back in here for awhile. It's getting close to that way again.
hasty_05
hasty_05
I agree about the number of people who post something and then disappear. Life, I have a different viewpoint. I think they are only here to take: attention, advice, praise - who knows. They don’t stay to give or share. Or they want instant feedback that tells them they did no wrong or are the victim. I notice many get mad if their own behavior is discussed. This website is not instant gratification but the people left are really pretty nice if one is willing to engage, be friends, and give back.
hasty_05
hasty_05
What is E Not Alone?
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
They want advice and then never engage. Totally suspicious.

It's another place like this.
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Another day

More bs
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Happy this day and that day

Screw it
Lifereallysucks
Lifereallysucks
Something has to change and soon, real soon!
confessionsofaqueen
confessionsofaqueen
Yes!
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