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- well I made it to DC and back for birthday weekend. That was the best decision I've ever made. I drove the six hours each way by myself. What an amazing feeling. Lots of fun, love and laughter with my daughter and friends! We have snow here in New...
- After a super bad night, I made it to DC. Just came back from a holiday party. Thank you all for your support. My daughter and I have yoga and shopping scheduled for tomorrow. Of course I feel bad for leaving the boys with stbx but trust me I needed...
- This is my first birthday without my husband. I did not know it would be this hard. He always made my birthday special. Last year I knew we were in trouble but yet he still got me my designer bag that I waited 40 years to get. If he kept that...
- So my husband came back to fix the lightbulb. I must have really freaked out for my oldest to call his father. I didn't realize I yelled until I saw my phone light up and my son yelled: answer it! I have therapy in the morning. I was reading that...
- So after going all day no contact I am ok until it is time for him to pick up the kids. I call the kids and they are so happy to be with their Dad. Today is pizza day. He is treating them to two kinds today. I am talking to my son and I hear his...
- it will be ten weeks tomorrow since my husband left. Thursday's ar now my hardest trigger day. I never thought I would survive one day without him here. I'm still not looking forward to the unknown. I feel like he's watching me regain myself...
- Contacted a lawyer and I am going Tuesday. I feel a little better but each night going home, I have this gut wrenching pain. I had to leave work to let him in because my son forgot his key. He always hangs around a few minutes extra to see if I am...
- I am thankful for this site. I just called my stbx eap program and I am set up for an appointment. The kids are taking this so hard. Their school work is suffering and they are so withdrawn.He actually told me today that this move was for him and...
- I had to make a seperate post. I told my kids I may send them to live with their dad. My kids are having a hard time with the seperation. My adult daughter called having a breakdown and was thinking of moving back home. My sons are acting out. The...
- I'm not sure what I can do. I don't want to be a single mom. It has been nine weeks since we seperated and he states he has no intention of coming back. I am so scared. Me and the boys have no plans. They watch tv I lay in the bed. I have a guy...
- I can not express how relieved I am. Court was continued without a finding (slashing tires). STBX decided to not go further with charges or ask for restitution. Of course he is still too angry to discuss parenting plans, finances and divorce...
- when my husband left I lost my mind. Burned his clothes, broke things, crashed my car and slashed his tires. I have court for that soon. Looking back I damaged so much, my perfect driving record and now having to go to court. If anyone is reading...
- damn today was awful. He was so cruel and cold. He made no attempt to see the kids. After I asked him he picked up the kids and spent 20 minutes chit chatting in the car. Is this going to go on forever?
- He wants me to accept that things didn't work out and move on. This is so hard. He says I'm stuck and won't accept that it's over between us. I feel abandoned and disguarded. Is this how it works? Just file and move on? That's it game over. It's...
- i can't be a good mother. I want to lie in bed all day. I always enjoy my time off for the holidays but since we are separated I don't want to do any thing.I can't call him, he won't call me. I cant eat or sleep. My kids don't want to stay with me...