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- Hi Everyone. It has been a long time since I have been on here.I completed my degree in Jan and started a new job and he could not handle my new found independence and moved out. The kids now see him of the abusive creep that he is and do not want...
- Hi All,It has been quite a while since I posted to the DS website. I have been off for a while trying to keep working it out and I am finally strong enough to have him served at work this week for legal separation. I am afraid that the tables will...
- Hi...been gone for awhiledealing with his rewriting of history and minimizing he says that he made mistakes..............he says he loves me, has been there for me, will be there for me......bullbut i keep trying to get him to deal with...
- I am a good person.I am a likable person.I deserve to be loved for who I am right now.I am not a bitch for being strong.I am not weak when I am meek.I am not responsible for someone else's behavior It is ok to cry, be angry and to not feel okThis...
- : geoge774 | hug geoge774 Sent : 9/7/09, 11:16 pmSubject: please get back to me nowFrom Mr. Dr Orji Kalu. Tel:+233542534527 E-mail (geoge_ndu@yahoo.com) I am Mr. Dr. Orig Kalu, the Ex-Governor of Abia Eastern State of Federal Republic of Nigeria Dr....
- when he says 'i did not understand' he means " I did understand and know know how bad my behavior was and I can not face it.when he says ' you are controlling' he means that you are confronting him on his behavior and he does not like it.when he...
- I know that this has been posted on here several times before but I came across it again and it really is very helpful. I also thought that it may be helpful to others after viewing some of the posts.you are not crazy.http://www.youarenotcrazy.com/
- here is little portion of a new link I found and I also posted the linkA Change in Behavior of the AbuserIt is not often that a male abuser will choose to change, because this would mean changing his whole character. That's a lot of work and it...
- With her (Farrah Fawcett) passing..I was remembering the movie "The Burning Bed"Has anyone else seen it? She gave an awesome performance and used her celebrity to speak out for victims of domestic violence. I was just pondering her life and...
- To my fellow survivors of abuse I want to day thank you.Thank you for the support when I am down and need validation.Thank you for sharing your own stories so I know that I am not alone.Thank you for the hugs.Thank you for the great articles and...
- LOL. Sorry but we all had so much fun the last time and I really could use a good laugh.
- From divorce support.comhttp://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/f/verba_abuse.htmVerbal abuse is difficult to identify and regrettably can be a common type of abuse in some marriages. Not all words that are meant to hurt are "ugly...
- I found this article and it fit my H to a tee and so I wanted to share it here with all of you.(((((HUGS)))))DeeDee"Male role control works by physically, verbally, or emotionally destroying your partner's physical and emotional integrity so that...
- Gaslighting is the systematic attempt by one person to erode anotherâs reality while asserting his own. And when you are second guessing your own reality, because you have given it up to someone elseâs reality, you should know that the gaslighting...
- Here is a great book on the subject of gaslighting and I thought that I would share it here.The Gaslight Effect by Robin SternHere a little intro:When women show up with black eyes and bruises, or report that their partners curse and scream, we...