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  Any safe space from trauma in Trumplandia?

  Posted by: settingboundaries

  Last Reply: Loser1945 02/19/2017

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  I've found nothing but support in this group so I am trusting to have the following discussion. But if you're prone to name calling (libtard, snowflake etc), this post isn't for you. I'm wondering, in the current political climate, with the gas lighting, lies and manipulating mind games, are there any other abuse survivors who are having a hard time coping with this administration?  Like any frustrated American on any plattform, I watch polical comedies to seek relief.  And the SNL Spicer...

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  Wish I left sooner

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  Posted: 02/09/2017

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  No comment or response necessary, just getting things off my chest:2 years was the duration of the relationship I had with my ex.  And I have now carried his grief for 14 years.  The grief has come and gone over time, or it seeped up in weird places, but if I had known the damage he'd done would I have left him sooner?The first time I said I was moving out he played a wounded bird "Oh my god you're going to seperate the cats!!"  Pretty ridiculous I know.  But an abuser will hold any gain...

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  Posted: 02/09/2017

  settingboundaries commented on the discussion Advice for coping w/ mood anniversary.

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  Advice for coping w/ mood anniversary

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  Last Reply: h.e.a.l. 02/11/2017

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  Past Problem -A year ago my ex reentered my life and set off a whole domino effect of revisited trauma as well as harassment in my own small community. His friends were spreading rumors and neighbors started giving me side glances and whispering around me. I have since removed myself from the environment he was able to manipulate, I have gone off the grid, didn't even tell my close neighbors or friends I made in my previous town where I moved to. I fear my ex would come and bother me in my new...

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  Posted: 02/09/2017

  settingboundaries commented on the discussion I don't know how to leave my sons father.